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My Little Brother
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To put it short my little brother is 9, lived with him and my mum all his life just a normal family i suppose.
But the problem is, he annoys me so much and just thinking about him makes me angry. I hate him to bits and iv hated him ever since he was born! Theres definately something wrong with me to hate my own brother for the whole 9 years of his life.
I try to be nice to him and i act like a brother (you know all the older brother stuff) but inside i hate him to bits.
What the hell is wrong here? I wanna sort it before he gets older.
Thanks
But the problem is, he annoys me so much and just thinking about him makes me angry. I hate him to bits and iv hated him ever since he was born! Theres definately something wrong with me to hate my own brother for the whole 9 years of his life.
I try to be nice to him and i act like a brother (you know all the older brother stuff) but inside i hate him to bits.
What the hell is wrong here? I wanna sort it before he gets older.
Thanks
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Indeed.
just beat the head of him, you'll feel better for it
lol i couldnt hurt a kid, although it would be nice if i never spoke to him again. I feel bad now, hes only 9
whats wrong with you, 9's the perfect age!
no! don't listen to david grohl!! my brother used to beat me and i hate him!!! i never understood why he hated me..... but in return i hate him back ... strange......
rudebwoy... this is what i say... if you keep telling yourself that you hate your brother you're gonna believe it and eventually act upon it.. if you keep telling yourself that you love your brother.. you will eventually start to believe it and act upon it.....
You'll grow out of it.
awwwwee
haha i know
sit down, and think long and hard about what it is that annoys you about your brother, then try and find a way to fix it
Good point
Saying he 'bothers me' is nonsense. So what? Is it a crime for him to interact with you?
It will get better. Its good that youre being adult about it and recognising that its your problem, and nothing hes done.
The sad thing is, he probably really looks up to you.
I bet if anyone hurt him, youd feel protective then.
do you like bringing up reasonably old threads?
Silly land lubber:p
Thanks nice to see you understand. I admit its my problem and hes done nothing wrong at all. I guess it is the age gap and that hes full of energy and getting to learn new ways to piss me off lol
Be aware that although he is only 9 he probably looks upto you for everything.
So make the most of it, be a good role model for him and in a few years you'll be good mates.