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sparkling future
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This is really just an idle query as a conversation with a mate triggered me off thinking.
For example:
With my ex the first time i met him there was an instant attraction and a spark there. After that we found our personalities clicked as well so it was one of those short passionate relationships that ended mutually but not really happily.
On saturday at a wedding i spent all night talking to a bloke i've known 10 years. He's a complete sweetie and is lovely looking and makes me laugh. But there's that spark missing.
Basically my friend thinks that relationships can blossom without the spark and they can grow into a solid relationship. I'm not particuarly convinced.
Just thought i'd find out other people's perceptions on this and see whether i'm the only cynical git on here
P.s not sure whether this makes sense, i've tried to explain it but it's a little hard.
For example:
With my ex the first time i met him there was an instant attraction and a spark there. After that we found our personalities clicked as well so it was one of those short passionate relationships that ended mutually but not really happily.
On saturday at a wedding i spent all night talking to a bloke i've known 10 years. He's a complete sweetie and is lovely looking and makes me laugh. But there's that spark missing.
Basically my friend thinks that relationships can blossom without the spark and they can grow into a solid relationship. I'm not particuarly convinced.
Just thought i'd find out other people's perceptions on this and see whether i'm the only cynical git on here
P.s not sure whether this makes sense, i've tried to explain it but it's a little hard.
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You arent being cynical, this is just your opinion, and obviously you'll feel alot closer to a person if there's a spark immediately, and maybe more willing to let yourself fall for them, etc, as you feel secure
hope that makes sense
SBG