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oh, I'm so depressed. I should be happy, I've got everything I've ever wanted, but I'm just not happy.
Here's the thing. I have a girlfriend, I've been going out with her for about 4 months, but I'm just not happy. And there's this other girl. I'd liked her for ages, like, 2 years, but I thought I was over her, but it turns out I'm not. I keep thinking about her. I don't know what to do.
Here's the thing. I have a girlfriend, I've been going out with her for about 4 months, but I'm just not happy. And there's this other girl. I'd liked her for ages, like, 2 years, but I thought I was over her, but it turns out I'm not. I keep thinking about her. I don't know what to do.
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I know who I like more - it is the other girl, and I know it's unfair, I also know that the other girl doesn't feel the same way. In fact the only thing I don't know is what to do.
what i say you should do is to find out if this other girl feels anything for you, if not then forget her and make a proper go of things with your bird...
but then again if your bird is giving you everything you want then id say stick to her coz the other one might not treat you right and fuck you around.
i dont agree i think that you should finsh with the girl that your with now even if there isnt any chance of you getting with someone else. Even if you think you like her a bit she obviously isnt the one for you if you feel so much stronger about someone else and would be willing to finish her if there was a chance with the other girl. It wouldnt be fair to leave her thinking that everything is ok when really ur just with her untill somthing better comes along
If you think you could, given time, be happy with her, by all means try to work things out, otherwise just be truthful. The longer you stay with her the more she will be drawn into it and you'll hurt her even more in the longterm.
people tell me to break up with my girlfriend, but whatever happens, I'm going to lose at least one friend, probably two, because I'm friends with both of these girls, so, it's really not that simple
beacuse if your not happy then its going to drag you down and also the longer you are with your girlfriend the harder it will be if you decide to split with her
xx
ok, I've made my decision, and trust me, this has been really hard. I'm not a nasty person, honestly, but I just don't like girlfriend as much asthis other girl, so, I' afraid I' going to have to end it with her next time I'm on my own with her.
I hope I'm doing the right thing.
If thats what you wanna do..... then good luck with it:thumb:
Just make sure thats what you wanna do:yes:
It doesnt make you nasty cos you wanna end it with your girlfriend, at least your not leading her on.
From what you've said, you aren't being horrid to your g.f. You're being honest with her and yes it may hurt, but its for the best, whether you get with this other girl or not :yes:
Don't get me wrong, I do like my girlfriend, but this other girl, she's just, well, perfect really. I can't stop thinking about her, even though I haven't seen her for ages, and I know she's probably going to turn me down, but I've got to give a go. Better that than being left thinking "What If?" right?
I haven't broken up with my girlfriend yet, I can't get in touch with her.