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Old Friend that I haven't seen in ages
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OK I was really close to this girl at school and we were best mates and then we both went to college and she got her own flat and we have drifted apart. That was nearly a year ago now I would really like to get in touch with her but i am scared that she doesn't want to see me or something. I have lost her mobile number and I was thinking about going to her flat and seeing her, but do you think that is a good idea? If she wasn't in I was also thinking of writing her a letter but I amn't sure. I really don't know what I should do.
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But don't you think there is a reason you didn't keep in touch. I often think about what the people I went to school with are doing now and sometimes I consider contacting them, but then I hear through a friend of a friend that they're nothing like they were and I know neither am I.
Like I said though, getting back in touch might rekindle your friendship or allow you to let go.
Well there you go! Surely it is worth a try, I mean I've given you reasons not to and you still want to, so go for it!
Personally I think if you were destined to be friends forever then going to college wouldn't cause a drift, but I've known a few people who've rekindled old friendships and I hope it works for you too.
That what I was thinking of doing if she wasn't in her flat when I went round.
I lost touch with a friend I'd known since I was 5, we'd been int he same class at school and then went to the sae college until we went to different Uni's at 18. Then didn't see him or hear from him in maybe 6 years or so. And we still lived in the same town
Then one of our Mutal friends got married and we were both invited as guests at the wedding and we resumed our friendship. We chat on MSN quite a bit and maybe seen each other in person a few times a month but it's still good to keep intouch.