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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok, heres the problem

a friend of mine is really great friends with someone who lives quite a distance from him. they are like brother & sister to each other. but hes fallen in love with her. shes got a boyfriend, and is moving even further away in september.

does he tell her his feelings before she moves away, or does he hide them from her, and just act like normal.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tell him to look at it this way, would the overall outcome if he told her be positive or negative to there friendship? personally i'd tell them not to bother she lives a way away anyhow and thats never easy (i know, personal experience) she's going to be moving even further away, and also she's already seeing someone.

    As much as it's probly killing him to keep how he feels inside, if he tells her he's probly just gonna make a really big mess of the whole thing, best to keep shtum i'd say

    But thats just my opinion
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