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coming out partys
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my best mate has jsut told me that he's bi, can i still though a coming out party for him? he's just spilt with my other best mate so at the mo he's very down, and right now is not a great time but how could i go this if it still applys.....
thanks
Luby
thanks
Luby
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think this is enough of an excuse?
I dunno I never made a big deal of coming out, but then I wasn't proud of being gay. If your friend wants to make a big deal out of it, then maybe it's a good idea. But if you just want to make him feel special, why not just have a party for him, for no occasion. Isn't that more flattering?
I've seen it happen before, so if you go ahead with it atleast check.
c'est stupide
it's stupid
get the idea?
Maybe you could just invite a couple of mates around and have an orgy:rolleyes:
I'd check with him to make sure he's happy about it all, remember whilst him and you are comfortable with the whole situation it doesn't necessairly mean that others will be. Whilst someones sexual orientation/habits shouldn't be other peoples business, many treat or act differently around someone when it becomes public knowledge..
I hope he's not proud of it. Those people annoy the fuck outta me ;[
...this is stupid though.
I think he means when they are all *frails wrists* and squeaky voice and what not.
Laugh a minute! Who cares what everyone else thinks
I ed him.
LOL.. what a great series.. and there was that girl who went "OHH MY GWAAAARD" all the time!
Heh, Jade. >:[
Or was it Helen?
Jade was in series three.
In the fact that they throw it in your face, with the OTT campness etc. I've got a few gay friends, and I have absolutely no problem with them, but even they hate the overly camp guys.
Noone cares about their sexuality, whatever it may be. Just because people are fine with it, doesn't mean they want to be reminded of it every two minutes.
Is that the cunt who said the first thing he'd buy was an organ for his local church? Thank fuck he's on Orkney is all I can say.
Good point
Argh, I knew someone would say that.
It's because being anything other than masculine (for guys) and feminine (for girls) is still seen as being wrong in so many circles these days.
As much as some of you seem to want gay people to just shut up, be quiet and be gay, people have every right to celebrate whatever the fuck they want about themselves, and if it gets on your nerves, you need to lighten the fuck up.
And another point, sometimes boys are just naturally effeminate, naturally emotional, and that's just the way they are. Shame some people seem to damn bigoted to realise that not everything that way is done for effect. Not everyone fits into a stereotype, like some of you seem to think.
Easy to stand up and say "I aint homophobic", but some of you act like bigoted twats at times :rolleyes:
OOH! Pot, kettle..nooooir.
If it is such a big deal to your mate then have a shin dig..but wasn't a change of sexuality something you face up to head on, and tell people in confidence rather than making a big deal out of it and have everything circulate around you?
However I do agree with people. It does seem a litte OTT, and redundant; but I dunno your mate's situation.
Gonna expand on that with valid, well thought out, reasoning?
Nah, thought not.