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me nd b/f
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hiya my boyfriend is really shy and next weekend i want to do stuff with him i know he wants to do stuff but just getting him to do it is going to be an up hill struggle. he's the shy type when can i let him know with out saying it upfront that we should start doing stuff
i know it sounds stupid lol but you know......
other people must feel like this with their boyfriends
i know it sounds stupid lol but you know......
other people must feel like this with their boyfriends
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Are you worried that you'll frighten him away if you're too direct? And/or he may think bad of you in some way?
What's wrong with a little beating round the bush?
I've said it before and I'm gonna say it again. If you and your partner are not comfortable about talking about sex and what you like and don't like then I would say your not ready to actually have sex.
Next time you get into a steamy snog session why not just ask him outright what he would like you to do. You might find that he's that worked up and turned on that he'll start blabbing.
What do you mean by "stuff"?
I rest my case. She can't even ask us the question.
Have you thought about contraception if it is "full" sex we're talking about? Condoms? Pill?
Take your time,everyone is a little scared at that age.
So much more to sex than just the actual penetration- youve a lot to learn little lady- whats the rush anyway?
See!! Told you:p Young one! lol
Sorry private joke
cheers for all the advice i spoke to him last night about it:P