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Originally posted by Zella Sounds like a good plan.
Just dont shout, even if they do. You will make them look like the childish ones if they start yelling
Originally posted by Susie Ok, us mods have kept quiet on this but actually ClaireBear and I are so angry for you!
£220 a week is extortionate
Originally posted by lipsy they're trying to keep you as a child for as long as they can and sorry to say this but it sounds like you're making it easy for them. you do as you are told even when its completley unfair. you definitley need to put your foot down. it's ridiculous, they take money from you as if you're an adult yet treat you like a baby.
Originally posted by lucifer devil how about your dad, have you spoken to him?
it seems a bit silly your mum asking where all your money has gone; it's clear that you give half to her! though it must be hard for you to spend the rest if you're never allowed out.
i'm not really sure what to say, but like lipsy said - just try and be strong. wait till you're 18 and see if there's any improvement. until then, bite your tongue and try not to argue about it 'cause you'll only give them more reason to treat you like a 12 year old.
Originally posted by blonde__batman i dunno if i can take another month of this
Originally posted by lucifer devil you can, you've put up with it for however many years. good luck.
Originally posted by blonde__batman thats what my boyfriend said to, just to wait till im 18. 6 more weeks to go. i guess it'll b ok. well i'll have to get through it wont i!
Originally posted by Doofay Does she have an e-mail address? I find putting things like this in writing is always much easier, or show them how mature you are and organise a family discussion on it. As long as you stay calm and don't get angry or go off on one, It'll show them just how mature you really are. If you pay rent, you don't deserve to be treated like a little kid. I hope it all works out for you
[All my opinion, it just seems better to try to talk to them on an adult level before resorting to threats ]
Originally posted by blonde__batman i've tried talking to them numerous times. and yesterday i tried again, i didnt shout or lose my temper but they just arent reasonable