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Ok here goes, i am having problems recently,
If you have a strong belief in one thing, but suddenly you feel you need proof of it, what would you do? would you test your belief to the mightiest way or give it some leeway and sit and wait?
Through me having this kinda dilemma i have start to begin many days unhappy, and i feel unfullfilled. anyone feel the same way?
anyone know how i can get back to my old self and feel much better?
please let me know,
Bob Da Spider
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If you have a strong belief in one thing, but suddenly you feel you need proof of it, what would you do? would you test your belief to the mightiest way or give it some leeway and sit and wait?
Through me having this kinda dilemma i have start to begin many days unhappy, and i feel unfullfilled. anyone feel the same way?
anyone know how i can get back to my old self and feel much better?
please let me know,
Bob Da Spider
x-x-x
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if i found my self i would surely gain what i had a while back
This vague shite won't cut it.
What are you all about, boy!?
right i like this girl named chloe, i like her alot, but also i like a girl named charlie, i think charlie has a BF, and chloe dont think she has, i split up with my GF a while back and lost all the confidance and humour and feeling i usta have about stuff, i want to get all my old stuff back that i usta have so i can start to pull females again because i seem like a nervous idiot at the moment.
help me, this is not vague anymore, ok?
Ok, just get back to being around females. This will get you into the inclination of being comfortable, friendly and flirtatious. If you know yourself you're too insecure to be around a girl you like, make sure there are other fowk around to take the pressure of you maintaining the attention/conversation.
Talk to a girl you can trust about this. I know it's hard trying to get over a past ex, but time is a healer, as cliched as it sounds, it's the bloody truth.
Take care.
x
go for it with chloe. at the end of the day, the worst she can say is no. uve only lost ur confidence around girls you like, not around friends etc, so it sounds like its all in your head. if u believe u have no confidence, then you'll loose any you have got. If charlie has a b/f, then stay away from her, or ul end up hurting urself, and possibly her/her b/f!! Your ex g/f aint worth it, so keep trying to move on!!:)
ur, you can't - surely that is one of the things about life, you change, therefore your views change and you don't generally go back - I mean good or bad, i'm not the same person I was a year ago , that's due to my circumstances and events that have happened.
Really, it is pointless worrying about - accept changes within yourself and move on.