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i suk at sex
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ok here's the deal... me and my gf love eachother madly we are totally in love with eachother and everything's great!
well that is until we have sex! i can wank myself stupid for hours before i cum, my gf can wank me off, give me head, for ages before i cum but when we have sex i just go in her and cum its so annoying! i dont generally get embarassed about it with her as we're so comfortable together we chat about it n stuff with eachother but i just wanna make her happy with some decent sex! she says that when i go down on her and finger her its all great which is good i guess but i need to be able to have sex with her coz its just frustrating now!
we love eachother so much and she says it doesnt bother her and it'll get better and that other stuff i do for her is great.
i just feel like theres something wrong with me, its not even premature its almost instant and it really sux.
so basically am i doomed with my crap sex life forever or is she rite will it get better? we were both virgins until recently and she said she mite be quite tight but im not sure, i think i mite just need to get used to being in her but do other people have to get used to it?!?!?
well that is until we have sex! i can wank myself stupid for hours before i cum, my gf can wank me off, give me head, for ages before i cum but when we have sex i just go in her and cum its so annoying! i dont generally get embarassed about it with her as we're so comfortable together we chat about it n stuff with eachother but i just wanna make her happy with some decent sex! she says that when i go down on her and finger her its all great which is good i guess but i need to be able to have sex with her coz its just frustrating now!
we love eachother so much and she says it doesnt bother her and it'll get better and that other stuff i do for her is great.
i just feel like theres something wrong with me, its not even premature its almost instant and it really sux.
so basically am i doomed with my crap sex life forever or is she rite will it get better? we were both virgins until recently and she said she mite be quite tight but im not sure, i think i mite just need to get used to being in her but do other people have to get used to it?!?!?
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If it's a combination of overexcitability and sensation, then you'll learn to control it in time. Have a search around here on this site, and you'll find some help pages concerning just about everything, including premature ejaculation, etc. Or search around the Net for health sites - most of which have a sexual health section and plenty of advice.
Don't panic, you are not doomed... there's info on TheSite that may help.
Read on....
premature ejaculation
using your love muscle
Hope this helps some,
CB
My ex was terrible with prem ejec, but I loved him and I can genuinely say it didn't bother me...:eek2:
It gets better with time matey,
Just relax, I know it's hard, I still do it sometimes, chin up lad
Just slow it down, and take your time- if you do other things, like go down on her, then it won't matter so much if you pop quickly, cos she'll be more than happy:)