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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I am really in love w/ my boyfriend and I have thought about giving him a blowjob but I don't know how and he has never recieved one...I also would like the favor to be returned if I do "give" but I wouldn't know what to tell him to do...We have just started to be alone to mess around here and there..

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you should just talk to your b/friend, but if you don't want to talk to him, go down on him and when you've finished just keep pushing him down until he gets the idea. He'll soon let you know if he wants to either way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,

    Bearing in mind I don't have any experience of this sort of thing and I guess sex... to be honest :-(

    I'd say in theory that you should talk to him first about both of you and the way you both feel. Just presuming he'll like it or want to do it to you would be wrong.

    I personally wouldn't want a girl to do that to me unless she's broached the idea with me first :-) I also haven't the foggiest idea what to do to her but of course I would want to, eventually.

    Ian.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm, blowjobs can be either great or eargh! 1) make sure he washes his tackle beforehand - or you'll be put off for life, trust me - 2) make sure he does not cum in your mouth either; if it's his first time chances are he'll do within about, let's say 10 seconds, 30 tops; 3) watch your teeth, nothing worse than getting grazed down there. As for reciprocation, guiding him down in that general direction is good start, also suggest you agree beforehand that this is gonna be a reciprocation deal and better still make him do you first!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru


    --> We have discussed sex and oral sex at times and we both want to take it slowly you know like by messing around at first then progressing..Just see the thing is we don't wanna feel weird around each other because we don't know what we are doing...We are both unexperienced but want to be with each other slowly but surely...And I really appreciate all the help from you guys! Thanks <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    *Roxie Gurl*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is a bit strange the first time, but I dont think its bad, in fact I quite like it as it's me in control.

    But if you're going to do it, two things to remember: wrap your dominant hand around the base of his penis - it stops him getting carried away and making you choke and also I've heard that it makes him enjoy it more, and number two, the most sensitive bit of a blokes tackle is about an inch below the head on the underside, so concentrate your tongue there and you're away!

    p.s. sorry if this has offended anyone, just thought I would shar to joy (so to speak!).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by roxiegurl:
    I am really in love w/ my boyfriend and I have thought about giving him a blowjob but I don't know how and he has never recieved one...I also would like the favor to be returned if I do "give" but I wouldn't know what to tell him to do...We have just started to be alone to mess around here and there..
    Roxie..start of with gentle nibbles and kisses..get comfortable down there first..also DONT shove his head down there!! Muff diving is an aquired taste..get him to lick and kiss the inside of your thighs and let the odd kiss or lick go upwards until HE feels more adventurous.Try using words like HOT or COLD if you feel embarrased about giving exact directions.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok most of u guys properly read this but just remmeber dont let him push it down ur throat. I did and I ended up throwing up over him and myself and the carpet. Then he started throwing up because i had thrown up. Anyway if he cums in ur mouth it is just gross ( i find some people like it) and i agree wash it first. I actually bought wet wipes before and wiped it over tyrying to do it sexy - it did not work i had the taste of a babys buim in my mouth!!!

    tremmeber ur in control not him u
    seeya beth
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just remember not to use teeth :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Just remember not to use teeth :eek2:

    Oi! Kermit, this is 3 years old!
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Its closer 4 years now!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jazza Bing
    Oi! Kermit, this is 3 years old!

    Really, I didn't notice!

    *whistles innocently*
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