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Im a freak
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Everyone thinks im a freak or im werid and its really getting me down, im so depressed and crying, i try and act normal and nice and everything, yet everyone just thinks im werid and a freak and doesnt like me and i scare them 
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but you do scare me :shocking: ......only joking
I don't know much about you ie how old you are but you can pm me if you want
not the most helpful comment in the world.
Here's my attempt instead:
Finding out who you 'are' is one of the most difficult things in the world - some people still aren't sure when they've reached old age. Being unusual isn't a bad thing, but not liking yourself is. Try to focus on things you'd like to change about yourself and make positive steps towards that. If you find people acting horribly towards you, think about why - what did you do to cause the reaction and did you think it was acceptable? Try looking at some of the features in the friends section in relationships for some more tips on making friends you want to keep.
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ah well
Your such a bitch, carrying on all pathetic :rolleyes:
Lynx your not a freak, the more negative you are about yourself the more depressed you will get. I know its hard but try to think positive and don't worry about the people who think your a freak because they're not worth it you need friends who will accept you for who you are inside. :yes:
Unneccessary. Don't be such a twat.
That was unneccessary too. Don't be such a twat.
I thought yours was more unnecessary to be fair. He's not exactly happy at the moment and quite a bit of that was due to you . . .
But I'm not going to comment on why that is because I'll just start an argument again . . .
We could do with the man-power over in politics. I need some new blood to flame:p
Good point, if I see the :rolleyes: icon in here one more time I think I will scream.
If you are depressed going to see a doctor or your college counsellor would be a good first step, and one you should try and force yourself to do. Itll help- a lot.
I wana work throug this, just need people, mostly girls around me to stop saying im a freak or unattractive as it just gets me down, along with posts like some in here, really puts me off posting as i just await some sort of backlash, but thank you for everyone for being nice to me and kind
i thnk i'll go about changing my looks and see if that makes me feel better.
Im also forcing my friends to see me a bit more.
Thanks guys and gals.
Shut up
Well thank you Jellygirl you have proved to everyone that not only are you rude but your also racist!
its not admitting defeat, its admitting you have a problem and facing up to needing the short term help of tablets.
I think if most people were honest we all go through periods of low self esteem, I think maybe thats what your problem is. You say about changing your looks, but if you dont feel right inside it wont really make you 100% better. There again if you did change in some way and people gave you more attention then it may work.
sorry have to say totally uncalled for!
Anyhoo, Lynx, you're not a freak or anything, you just need to get a bit of self esteem. I'm sure councilling would held enourmously. It's not admitting defeat, they'll help you work through your problems and help you get some confidence back.
How exactly, m'dear? How is taking the piss out of your pathetic lexis "racist"?
Oh, and it's "you're", the informal version of "you are".
But I guess i look on the bright side, and think, well at least i can make people laugh!
Seriously though, don't get depressed about it. I think a change of image is quite a good idea, might help u get more confidence, and start over-type thing. But really you've gotta come to terms with urself too!!!
Jeez, i think im really bad at this advice thing, i just ramble on too much! But hope i helped, and cheer up!!
Lynx, if you don't want to go to see your doctor, I don't see how it can get any better. Changing your hair won't make any difference. Sorry if you I am being negative, but I think it is true.
I don't see how me telling you that you are being out of order (again :rolleyes: ) is unneccessary. You obviously need telling.
:yes: you gotta get a new attitude, not a new hairstyle! If you change how you look, but still think how you do, it won't make a difference. 'Sall to do with confidence. You could be the ugliest guy in the world, but with a bit of confidence and belief in yourself, you will be found attractive. However, if you think getting a new hairstyle will affect your confidence for the better, then go for it
And also, I agree with what Becky said, going to the doctor's/getting pills isn't admitting defeat, it's seeing that you have a problem and trying to sort it out, which is the opposite :yes:
Talking to someone i doubt would solve my problems either, because its other people who get me down with their moaning at me or telling me whats wrong with me etc. But thats just the way humans are, humans dont like success of other people
I'll find a way to get people to change their thoughts about me and be a bit happier for me, not being so nice would be a good start as i let people say what they like without telling them not to, cos im scared they wont talk to me, well now i dont care and im gona say what i think...at times, not all the time though.
I think I see it, she was trying to make a point that white people can't speak like that BUT black Jamaican people apparently do. Stupid comment to make really, skin colour doesn't define the way you speak.
Lynx, get confident in yourself, see a councillor, get away from it all, get new friends