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sore!
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I had sex for the first time last night and i know some people bleed a bit after the first time but i bled loads! n been bleedin a little bit today. I'm also really sore, he was quite big and i know it was the first time but is this normal!?
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I was really sore after my first time espeshially (sorry I can't spell that word) when I went for a pee but don't worry the pain will go soon although sometimes sex can hurt a few more times after your first time but in time it will go and you will have more fun .
I bled v lightly for a few days and even went to my nurse to ask her-she said it was normal and that it was sensible of me to ask tho.
maybe you werent wet enough? not neccesarily because you werent turned on, but maybe because you were nervous, or anxious or whatever. try some lubricant next time, either KY jelly or something like that, make sure you have nothing else on your mind; like who is going to hear you downstairs! thats very off putting and your mind often focusses on that rather than enjoying what you're doing sometimes!
take it steady and always remember to only have sex when you want, and make sure its safe sex with someone you really want to be with; if you're not quite sure you're never going to be comfortable and this will lead to you being sore later on due to you not being wet enough etc.
Yes, the same happened to me :yes:
I've slept with my boyfriend a few times now but I am still sore during sex and really don't know why.
I didn't bleed my first time but we didnt go that far, although I did bleed after a few times.
Sex is still sore now though and I dont know why
Has anyone got any ideas?
I bought some a few months ago, and it lasts for ages and only cost a few quid but it's well worth trying out. I'm all for trying new things with sex
Mr_Wobble
i bled quite a bit, even though i did a lot of sports, when i was still a virgin a boyfriend fingered me really hard and i bled so much, and evn after that i bled my first time. it passes though, it might be sore for the next few times, your bodys not used to it, but if you are really turned on it shouldnt hurt so much.
loadsa luv
xx