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BillieTheBot
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Well me and had sex today...and all was well untill i put the condom on him then....flop bye bye boner.
this has happened before with him but we just balmed it on the cold as we were in the park.
i dnt understand, he's fine getting hard and fine staying hard when im giving him head or wot not, but as soon as his penis cops sigh of the condom down it goes. whats wrong? is it me?
this has happened before with him but we just balmed it on the cold as we were in the park.
i dnt understand, he's fine getting hard and fine staying hard when im giving him head or wot not, but as soon as his penis cops sigh of the condom down it goes. whats wrong? is it me?
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Condoms = shit.
1) trust him more and
2) know that BOTH of us have had a test and got the all clear.
Good girl (not being sarcastic)
Just try like your hour of forplay so you get him really werked up and then try putting the connie on. Have you ever thought of using a femme-dom ?
YeA! that rustling plastic bag sound is a real turn on:eek2:
And i want to be sensible with this one.
However, you have to be sensible, and have to use them, especially with all the STI's around.
Mr_Wobble
Lots of guys are the same, but keep being sensible. Just try keep giving him a hand job whilst putting it on and afterwards till penetration. Sometimes works...otherwise...erm.
But as for being safe from sti's etc...you've given him blow jobs need I say more?
oh grow up! oh its so shit preventing hiv and stds isnt it!!!! :yeees: :rolleyes:
femmedoms aren't as good as condoms anyway i dont think - i guess the condom can split but *shrug* it's just one of those things!
apparantly femi doms are a lot less effective, they can often go to one side and the dick will be, well u know, totaly unprotected
there also a lot more expensive than condoms and you wont be able to get them free at the doctors (due to the price)
and anyway, a lotta girls take responsibility and take the pill, wont kill you to put a jonny on!
But either way the pill doesn't protect you from STI's.
It's about why condoms makes Zella's fella flacid - and the answer is because they're shit.
its also a catch 22, you should be using them with a girl you've only just started sleeping with, but thats the time youre most nervous about it, and having to put a condom on just adds to that, and can end in embarrassing disasters
then when its happened once, its hard not to think about it next time...which makes it worse
I always think I'll try putting it on the guy but I've never done that before-I worry I'll get it inside out or do it wrong. I guess in the same way that the guy worries bout the fumbling!
I always tend to rub them and stroke them til its on and not watch them do it!
How can she solve this problem without it appearing to him that she is trying to?If you get what I mean!
Mrmint you said put it one with your mouth..how would i do that cos dnt you have to hold the tit bit of the condom as your doing it? i dnt think i'd be able to do it, wont stop me trying tho. so yea.. how?
cover ur teeth wiv ur lips.. then then put the tip inbetween to make sure no air is in the condom, then just got to give him a blow job rollfing the condom down with ur mouth ! ??that help??
Have you got cold hands??
Always....
or do you litterally mean the sight of the condom makes turn into Mr Softey?
BTW Good girl for taking pecautions in the first place.
For the person who gave out the advice about putting it on with the girl's mouth- condoms smell bloody awful for a start, I don't think many girls want to put them in their mouths.
In my experience, as soon as the guy is hard he should be 'suited up' - then at least you have no worries when you're really fired up. Also, the best brand I've used is Durex Fetherlite.