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HORNY - right time, right place?!!!!!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Okay guys I have a problem which I cant really explain but am going to give you an example!

Yesterday, I had a free house all day! (on study leave!) so my bf came up & we spent the whole day together but I was just not turned on or horny at all! I gave him head as I wanted to keep him happy but it did nothing for me! I really really wasnt in the mood for sex! So I made excuses etc!

This happens a lot when we have the chance! Then last night after we had been out with our friends he came back to mine & we chatted up in my room for ages! Then my mum and sister went to their beds it was just me and him up & I started to feel a bit turned on! (We werent even doing anything!)

Then it was time for him to leave & we were kissing bye & we ened up on my bed all over each other & I was the most turned on I have been in a long time! He really had to go but the same happened on the couch down stairs. (On his way out!) We never had sex as he had to go! Why do I get horny & turned on when he has to go or when its too risky at getting caught! I have to admit I like the excitment but is there something wrong with me?! A few weeks ago i started getting turned on just with us playing footsie in our computing class!

Has anyone else ever had this problem? What can I do about it?!

Advice and things all welcome from anyone willing to help!

Emi x <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah its like when your together sometimes your like so cant be bothered but then when I'm at work and think about him I get so turned oon and wish I could be with him!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dunno why it happens but im the same too! I just get bored when we're together but when they go i get horny! Cheeky innit! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Wonder if any lads get the same?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k:
    <STRONG>I dunno why it happens but im the same too! I just get bored when we're together but when they go i get horny! Cheeky innit! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Wonder if any lads get the same?</STRONG>

    I just thought I'd tell you that you've posted that message 3 times! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cool! someone else with the same problem. when my lass comes round and i have a free house and its totally the perfect time to get it on i'm not in the mood at all. but when:

    1. i'm at work/college/away from her
    2. are with all our friends in the same room
    3. my family are in the house

    i feel totally up for it and just want to grab her and kiss her all over. how annoying

    l8rz p33pz
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry for posting that like 3 times! I didnt realise!

    are you having a laugh
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi

    Dont worry about it. I can be playing around wit me GF and not even get at all horny. But then there are times when we are simply walkin down the rd together and i simply want a shag there n then coz im so horny.

    Its normal, either that or we're both odd.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That happens with me and my bf all the time. like when your friends are there and you cant go off and just av a shag. i think its somat like you want it because you cant have it and thats wot the turn on is <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is it beacause when us fellas are horny, We are all over you like a rash ? What would have made you horny in this instance ? Touching, Talk or is it a "Don't go there" situation ? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's the same with me and my boyfriend too. He's been feeling a lil hurt recently cos he thinks I don't fancy him anymore and that he doesn't do it for me, but he couldn't be more wrong! I dunno what it is. At the weekend he was round and I really really wanted to have sex (we had the house to ourselved too) but for some reason he had to like initiate it all. It's really frustrating cos I know he's starting to feel insecure about it, but I dunno what I can do!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'd epect the answer to that would be obvious. If youre feeling horny then don't wait for him to initiate things, go ahead and jump him.

    I don't doubt that he and his li'l soldier will respond according to your wishes (he IS a guy after all)! lol.
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