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Lesbian?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Oh no what have we done?? This is something which has been on my mind for a while but i haven't been able to tell anyone about it. I hope you guys can give me some advice. Last month me and my bezzie mate (we're both female btw) were babysitting. We were sat on the sofa watching the TV and suddenly we just started kissing really passionately. It was all over in like 30 seconds and she went home. I've seen her loads of times since then and neither of us has mentioned it although its obvious we're both thinking about it and it makes it really awkward. Do you think I should say anything to her or just keep quiet??

I can see clearly now, the rain has gone.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well do you fancy her?
    Was it just a heat of the moment thing or do you have feelings for her?
    Have you been thinking of her like that for some time or did it come as a surprise?

    It depends how close you are to your friend but if it were me I would talk to her aboutit. She might fancy the pants off you and she might become something other than a mate..If she says it was just a spontaneous thing they theres no loss.

    I doubt she will react badly, she didnt on the night so theres no reason she should now. Might be a bit of an embarrassing conversation but what the hell.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    personally i think that you should talk to her about it. wait till theres nobody else around and find out what she thinks.

    if it was just a heat of the moment thing then once you have cleared the air then things will be alot less awkward. If there is more to it... well i guess it depends on both of your feelings on the matter and what you want to do about it.

    just one question what are your feelings towards men at the moment?

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi
    Thanks for the advice, it's made me really think about talking to her about it. It was totally spur of the moment and I don't fancy her at all now, in any other way than a friend. As for what I feel about men, I totally adore them <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    I think I could talk to her, as you say in private, but I'm really scared that I'll make things worse, and I'll loose her as a friend. Oh why is life soooooo hard sometimes??!

    I can see clearly now, the rain has gone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Glad to hear that you still adore men <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    If shes a good friend to you, you won't lose her over this once everythings sorted.

    but your right life is hard!

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont worry, plenty of teens end up 'experimenting', talk to her about it.

    It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
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