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Getting it in a women

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I need some advice on "getting it in women" since when I have tried I could not and I tried different positions without success.

Its doing my head in - please help!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol: How old are you?
  • smitherzsmitherz Converted to the darkside Posts: 968
    icey wrote:
    :lol: How old are you?

    I was going to post the same thing :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    depends on what kind of orafice you want to enter.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe it is padlocked
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First things first. Do you have one?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Say "open seasame".
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am 25 my gf same age. I trying to get it in her vagina without success. We both have very little experience between us, but want sex. Please help!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blah wrote:
    First things first. Do you have one?
    One what?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One what?

    Penis
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes obviusly, I had trouble getting it in right gf tryd to help but without success so i feel really bad about it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What exactly is preventing you "getting it in"?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I think you need to be more specific.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it was kind of in, but it didnt feel right for both of use so I am not sure if it was in right.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That is still unbelieviably vague.

    Are you attempting it blindfolded or something? Theres a very clear way of getting it in: look where it's going.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, on top is usually a good position for "getting it", just stick ur member up in the air (like you just don't care) and she strides it, slowly guiding you in to the, well, hole, between her legs and there you are, you have penetration!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You'll need to get her aroused enough first, with foreplay. Try using fingers in her, start with one and work up to 2, even 3 if she's comfortable with it.

    And try using some lube. If everything is even slightly too dry it can cause too much friction and not go in.

    Your dick needs to be properly erect. But you probably know that?

    After that, just part her legs and dive in.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get a boner
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you're not hard enough you will have a lot of trouble "getting it in".

    Why don't you look what you're doing with it, that should give you a pretty big fucking clue as to whether's you are correctly docked or not.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She could be really small if she hasn't had any experience either.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have you tried feeling for the hole? Like when you have your penis in your hand use your thumb at the same time to feel for it, then slide your penis inside.

    Is she a virgin?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote:
    If you're not hard enough you will have a lot of trouble "getting it in".

    :lol:


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Now there are two cunts I'd never want to get it in.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doomsday wrote:
    well, on top is usually a good position for "getting it", just stick ur member up in the air (like you just don't care) and she strides it, slowly guiding you in to the, well, hole, between her legs and there you are, you have penetration!
    :yes: I agree.

    I had this problem with my bf when we first got together as he was a lot bigger than I had room for it seemed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aye

    I have to say, I have had the odd toruble in the old missionary position, embrassing I know as its the most basic position, but I never failed with the on top positin, easier to see whats going on to. But yeah, as the others say, you do need to be hard, that will help a lot.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fingering her beforehand will help. Start with one finger, then two, as it should 'stretch' her a bit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she was well wet and felt ready. I had a right boner on me so dont know what went wrong!
  • **helen****helen** Mod malarkist Posts: 9,235 Listening Ear
    Hi, the following is from the avert website - thought it might help:
    When the couple are both ready to have sexual intercourse (and this includes the boy putting a condom on if he is going to use one), it is probably easiest if either the boy or the girl uses their hand to guide the penis into the vagina. Then, once the penis is inside, the couple need to move their bodies so that the penis pushes into the vagina and then pulls partly out again.

    Click for the full article

    It's not unusual to experience these kind of issues when you first try sex, but don't worry, with practice it will all be good. Take care. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe you made me laugh with the title! :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks. Its just a question of waiting till she wants it again. At the moment she dont even want any foreplay which i guess is understandable. I wont push her & hopefully this will change in time. any females here had prob where b/f cant get it in? how did it make you feel for the few weeks after? How long before u felt like trying again?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get yourself some lube and pop it in her....
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