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Friend and I like the same girl and he wants to fight me for her
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me and my friend like the same girl. they've gone out twice and she likes me now, and doesn't like him. in fact i was about to ask her out when my friend did first. he got shut down majorly. then today on myspace the kid was looking for people who hate me in order to stage a time a place to jump me. i was like "what the hell?" and he said if I ask out zoe (thats the girl) then he was going to kick my ass.
nowi'm 90% sure i could take him, no problem. but I REALLY don't want to fight him. hes always been jealous of other guys and now i'm the one hes jealous of.
so what should I do? should I tyr ot ignore him? should I try to meet him dead on and fuck him up? advice please!
nowi'm 90% sure i could take him, no problem. but I REALLY don't want to fight him. hes always been jealous of other guys and now i'm the one hes jealous of.
so what should I do? should I tyr ot ignore him? should I try to meet him dead on and fuck him up? advice please!
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I would leave them both well alone. They will only cause you trouble.
He is just jealous of your success, a sore loser. Let him bring it on, but don't aggreviate him. If he plans to ambush you with a lot of guys you might be in trouble tho.
Now, if you think he will actually carry it out then you should give it a though or two, as to wether you like the girl enough to risk it or not. But honestly, I would be so angry about having someone try to dictaminate what I can and cannot do, who I can and cannot date, that I'd just go ahead with my original wishes. If you cave this time who is to say that he won't do it again in the future with another girl?
well, they've only been out twice. Not that you speak of relationship there, in the first place.
Moreover did this guy disqualify himself as a friend. I agree with IWS here.
Go for it. He's pathetic and will even proof it, if he really attacks you because of her.
But then again i just hate little pricks that think they're hard and think every single one of them need bringing down a few million pegs.
Just go for it with the girl, you know she likes you and doesnt like him. no problem.
I'm not surprised that the girl blew the jumped up loser out of the water, mind.
Personally, I'd ask her out and see how it goes, and if he does try any funny business, well, its his life he's destroying.