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blow job - what did i do wrong?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
The other day i gave this boy i'm seeing a blow job & it was my first time doing it.
I didnt really know exactly wat 2 do apart from just suck and lick, so thats all i did.

Eventually afta like ages he got really hard <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">and just wen i thought he was gonna cum...he didnt...so i had to finish it off by tossing him off. I know it sounds really silly but i really wanted him 2 cum in my mouth - just 2 c what its like.

what did i do wrong? cos all my mates are always saying how they can get their boyfs to cum in like 3mins of sucking but it took me ages <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">&amp; my mouth was aching. cant help but feel like i did it totally wrong or something <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; .
iz it my fault he didnt cum in my mouth or could he hav a prob ?

it was really weird cos wen i thought he was gonna cum he got all shakey and kept pushing my head further down and i gagged twice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif">, which wasnt nice. but i enjoyed it anyway <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; even though im really confused about what i'm actually supposed to have done.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    come on ppl...reply <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by SarahBabe:
    come on ppl...reply <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    give us a chance!! if you're that impatient then no one will reply <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    but yeah, its not just you. its happened to be me before, but then people have said its not my technique and how i was good and stuff... and its not the guy coz hes cum before.... so its an unexplained mysssstery <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think you should worry too much. My last boyf adored me giving him a bj and came every time, but my current one just doesn't enjoy it as much. At the end of the day it's not that important and you can always have heaps of fun practising!

    I can see clearly now, the rain has gone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah - i would say just keep practising at it. vary the technique and you'll soon find what he likes best. particular sensitive spots etc

    no doubt he will be cumming in your mouth b4 long <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; if not don't worry, it doesnt mean that theres a problem

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well go 4 both of the g spots if u dont no where they r 1 is on the bell end and one on the base and suck harder or softer ask him wat he wud like and wat wud make him cum and by the way cum tastes foul so u rnot missing much
    but ask him talk to him and practice he will enjoy that

    smile
    -x-
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What do when i give my boyf head is play with his balls :) cause there a pice of skin there that makes a bloke like really horney and turn on keep playing with them when u do hopefully that may work hope i help
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx everyone for replying <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Its good 2 know im not the only one cos ive been upset since it happened... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    ne of u got ne tips for tossing off? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no tips but sometimes u dont cum if ur nervous, so maybe that could be why
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe he didn't want to cum in your mouth.
    Some guys are aware of the unpleasant taste and would prefer not to cum in the girls mouth...unless she lets him know she wouldn't mind.
    I would prefer to know a girl doesn't mind before just letting rip and depositing my load! For this reason I tend to hold back just before ejaculation, or I let her know I'm about to come.

    Never piss into the wind!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/cool7.gif"&gt;
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