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Approaching A Girl
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Hi all any replies or thoughts to what I'm about to post are much appreciated, here goes.
Basically Im 23 and have been single for 2 years, it isnt the single part of my life that bothers me but the lack of female interaction since my last relationship. I seem to have a problem approaching the opposite sex, I just dont know what to say or how to do so without making a twat of myself. I was in a relationship between the age of 18-21 and feel I lost that period of time to spend with my friends and go out on the pull like us young men do. I wouldnt consider myself unattractive, there are a few things eg I have eczema on my face and this gets worse during winter, I have a slightly receeding hairline and I feel I'm a little shorter than most blokes but I like to feel I take pride in my appearance. I make an effort to go out with my mates often and generally have a laugh but I just long for female attention which I rarely get.
I dont know where I go from here, Its actually getting to the stage where Im starting to feel old when I go out. I just feel like this fun part of my life is slipping away before its time to find a girl and settle down, though at this rate I cant even see that happening. As you can tell im on a bit of a low ebb and its starting to get me down as its really the only part of my life that feels unfulfilled. I feel I come across as a confident person but when it comes to girls I go all shy, there have been a couple of opportunities but I just didnt feel attracted to them so rejected any advances.
Advice appreciated Thank you
Basically Im 23 and have been single for 2 years, it isnt the single part of my life that bothers me but the lack of female interaction since my last relationship. I seem to have a problem approaching the opposite sex, I just dont know what to say or how to do so without making a twat of myself. I was in a relationship between the age of 18-21 and feel I lost that period of time to spend with my friends and go out on the pull like us young men do. I wouldnt consider myself unattractive, there are a few things eg I have eczema on my face and this gets worse during winter, I have a slightly receeding hairline and I feel I'm a little shorter than most blokes but I like to feel I take pride in my appearance. I make an effort to go out with my mates often and generally have a laugh but I just long for female attention which I rarely get.
I dont know where I go from here, Its actually getting to the stage where Im starting to feel old when I go out. I just feel like this fun part of my life is slipping away before its time to find a girl and settle down, though at this rate I cant even see that happening. As you can tell im on a bit of a low ebb and its starting to get me down as its really the only part of my life that feels unfulfilled. I feel I come across as a confident person but when it comes to girls I go all shy, there have been a couple of opportunities but I just didnt feel attracted to them so rejected any advances.
Advice appreciated Thank you
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I defo think being yourself is the best advice. If you just act as you would normally with your mates then your more likely to find someone who actually likes you.