Girls or Gazzelles a question about female pack mentality?

Former Member

theres a girl i really like, i see her two or three times a week in lectures, we have spoken before and are at the the point where we say hi to each other when we see each othe but thats about it, id love to talk to her more and i really like her from the taking wee done , also shes beutifull, and i think she likes me too (although it should be noted im not vey good at telling). anyway the crux is sheis always with a group of 2-3 girls that i dont know and have never spoken to now its hard enough or me to get up the courage to talk to one girl and maybee ask her out but how do i do it when shes surrounded? bear in mind allthree times ive asked girls out before i got turned down.

Former Member

Find out where they go drinking, go to that place, get tanked up and chat to them (provided you're all old enough to drink)... I mean along the lines of "hey, I recognise you from <insert class here>, so... What's up?"

Talk to them all and when one person goes to the toilet keep on chatting, find out her interests and work with that.

Former Member

yea, confronting someone like that is hard enough without people around making the task even more difficult. But hey, if you're set on it, it's still possible. They aren't glued to her, right?

Former Member

catch up to her after a lecture and just start talking about it.

Maybe suggest a study date...she doesn't need to know its a date, but you can get her round your place or go round hers and study. Worked for me in college loads of times.

You dont need to come onto her now, but you will get to know her.

Just an idea.

Good luck anyway