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Forskin trouble help!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i have a problem, my forskin doesnt come back completely over my head, what shall i do??? will this mean it will hurtduring sex or i will have problems when putting on a comdom, has any1 else had this problem??
help please

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have an ex who used to have this problem but apparently I cured him of it <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> With a little time and patience the problem will correct itself. Sex & condoms should not be painful. Plus, you can help yourelf by regularly pulling it back,ie in the shower (or whatever). In time, the skin will get more relaxed and the problem will vanish
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    okay thanks alot, but if i have sex while i still have this problem will it hurt?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It shouldn't do no. At least, we never had any problems & for the first few times you should probably be gentle anyway, regardless of any other factors involved.
    Besides, if it doesn't hurt while you're doing other things (desperately trying to be polite here) there's no reason for it to hurt during sex.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok thanks alot thats put my mind at ease. when putting on the comdom tho, should it be tight, or should i leave an air bubble at the top for the cum to collect??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pinch the top as you put it on - don't leave too much room tho, you don't want it falling off. I believe most condoms are shaped so that there is room anyway (you must excuse me, I've been on the pill for years & have always let men deal with condoms if needs be). If I were you tho, I'd have a few practise runs with the condoms before you actually have sex. Then, not only will you be more comfortable, but it'll also be one less thing to worry about.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No! Don't leave an air bubble, theres more chance of it splitting... <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fair enough - thanks for that - I clearly know nothing about this, thinking about it, I don't think I've ever put a rubber on a man.

    [ 22-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyRed ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    ...and theres me thinking you were a classy whore! <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ooh! Them there's fighting words my friend. I'll have you know I'm neither classy nor a whore ta muchly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry! I'll keep your secret! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why thankyou kind sir <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have had this and i still have in a way but its got better i have been to hossy for it and i am just waiting for date to have tommy hat removed <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">


    word of warning with the sex if u get skin stuck behind the bell u i was told to go to a+e right away for and op <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> coz it can be dangerous
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1 of my ex's had a problem with his foreskin. I'm not sure what it was but he inserted it in me gave a shreik of pain and for about one week his bell end was swollen.
    And kinky red condoms should always be used trust me clahmydia isnt a nice thing to have especially if its left untreated coz it turns into P.I.D (pelvic inflammatory disease) Which is very painful and can make you infertile
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I think you will find wheather an operations is needed as soon as you try the first time. I had it as well, and I did not have any problems at the beginning (just a little bit of bleeding -not nice-, and some very light pain), but I went to the doctor just in case, and he advised me to have a little bit of skin removed (I was 14-15).

    Now it works perfect, no pain, no bleeding... only pure pleasure!!!!

    Also hygiene is easier. Visit your GP, and show him/her your penis, he will advice you better than us with the evidence in front of eyes.

    Good luck!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    s3xk1tt3n,
    thanks for the sex ed lesson but I am well aware of this - I've only had none condom sex with two men - both of whom I loved & trusted & I am in the clear.
    Thanks for your concern tho

    [ 22-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyRed ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok fair enough. But still have you been tested for it? No matter how much you love and trust someone there ex may of had it, and it goes unseen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    s3xk1tt3n,
    This is getting a little personal for my liking - do you mind if I message you on this?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my bf has a simular problem
    www.thesite.org/cgi-noperl/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=1&t=002598

    take a look <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kinkyred
    sure you can
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with clevertoni i to had the problem but at a younger age of 9 and was circumcised then. now it's fine and alot cleaner go gp and sort it out
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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