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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Rite this mite sound silly but....
i went to see crossroads (britneys film) the otha nite, n it got me thinkin bout wen i lost my virginity, n my boyf made me feel so special afterwards, but with anyone else that probs wnt happen anymore, n i feel like ive lost somet. Does ne1 else regret losin it even tho they mite av been or thought they loved that person at the time? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This might help you in your next post:
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    And in answer to your question.....you shouldn't regret it. At the time it was special, treasure the memory of it. You're very lucky if it was nice for you and he made you feel special.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You go BumbleBee.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well said bumble bee - this is a discussion board NOT a txt message!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hehe, poor newbie. Anyway....
    i do regret my first time, it was awful, and so was the guy. I wish id waited a few months.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Takes a bow*

    I apologise to the newbie though, I know she had a *serious* point to make, although I am not quite sure what it was, because I couldn't decipher it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know a lot of people who regret it. Lads get to a certain age where they feel like they desperately need to lose it to prove their manlyness or something.

    I don't entirely regret losing mine, but if I could turn back time I'd wait more.

    Bumbles is right, you shouldn't regret it but inevitabley a lot often do.

    [Edited to add that you should be more worried about going to see that appauling hump of turd that is Miss Spears. Now that IS something to regret <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">]

    [ 31-03-2002: Message edited by: Stracha_Khan ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didn't feel any different after my first time, but I would have regrets if I had to watch a film like Crossroads! <img src="http://216.40.198.77/mysmilies/s/cwm/cwm/puke.gif&quot; alt="image">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well maybe you should go see it cause it really makes ya think.Anyway wots the problem with shortend words, if its quick and you understand them then i dont see the problem,maybe your just makin something out of nothing.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its easy to regret your first time, even if at the time it was a nice experience especially if you dont really stay close to the person you lost it to which i dont think alot of peopl do.

    god, such effoort to write using no abreiviations, now must just check back to be sure i haven't......
    nope i havent, good i can post this now! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but maybe you should read the code of conduct and a lot of people dont like 'txt tlk' and it is easier for peopel to understand if everything is written in plain english and a good point somebody made before was there is no character limit so whats the need to shorten words?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by **Cinderella**:
    <STRONG>Anyway wots the problem with shortend words, if its quick and you understand them then i dont see the problem,maybe your just makin something out of nothing.</STRONG>

    YOU may understand them, but it took me a while to read what you said, much longer than if you'd just written it properly.

    loads of people regret their first time, but its bound not to be that great isnt it? i suppose its best just to live and learn and look forward to a great sex life in the future! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 31-03-2002: Message edited by: *ali* ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i lost mine - he made me dinner and we had it in candle light with music - that brought me to tears.......then we went upstairs and it didnt feel special. In a way i dont feel like ive lost it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow. I feel so out of place, someone has already beat me to abusing a newbie. *inferior*

    Anyways, I guess that leaves me with nothing more to add... <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> this isn't how it's supposed to be.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by buglove:
    <STRONG>when i lost mine - he made me dinner and we had it in candle light with music - that brought me to tears.......then we went upstairs and it didnt feel special. In a way i dont feel like ive lost it.</STRONG>

    For the next few timesafter i had that feelign that "i won't remember what to do, and that i hadn't lost it" but then again i think i was liek that at kissing but then i being an expert.......

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    Lol what a big head..........Im kidding though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont regret loosing my virginity when did, but i do regret that it wasnt with my boyfriend.
    the guy i lost my virginty too was really caring, but it just didnt work out <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah i do regret losing mine. i guess thats because i was only 13 at the time and the guy was my ex who i had split up with about 6months before. we were very drunk and i just cried after. i wish i had waited. i really do regret it. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> was anybody elses first time was as bad as mine? <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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