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Give him the benefit of the doubt - he's said he is reapplying in November and will be working until 2007 entry.
i hope he does prove me wrong though!
I'm sure SG is grateful for the 30 seconds you spent wishing him luck in previous threads.
I hope he proves you wrong as well.
Most people I know have trouble with money, my loan still hasn't come through but I'm managing without. Just get a lend of it with the promise of re-paying or get an overdraft from the bank.
As for accommodation, nowhere's perfect. There'll always be wee nigling things but that's half the buzz, it's supposed to be challenging, it's all about showing you can live independantly from home.
Maybe you're not ready for that now and I respect your decision, I'd just advise you do stick at it next year and don't let the small things get too you too much!
You really are one angry little person aren't you. Oh and if you're going to quote me, then quote me properly and not put in your own random shit.
And as to certain other posters (sorry did I say posters, I meant poster) whilst everyone is entitled to an opinion there's a difference between voicing your views and taking an opportunity to judge or even attack someone.
Regardless of where that agression or bitterness might be from, I suppose it might be best to consider that it wouldn't be apparent if someone didn't care about your situation SG.
Still I guess all the world's problems would be resolved if we could all just be called pathetic and told to pull our socks up when we didn't manage to succeed at everything we tried.
I know how you feel, moving away miles from home. I had a cack freshers week, I didn't get into halls, I was in a horrible mouldy house with a load of chinese people who hardly spoke english and 1 2nd year, further from the campus than i would have liked. my loan didn't come in for 3 weeks so I couldn't go out. I ended up sitting in my lectures for the whole of the first term on my own cos I was too shy to talk to anyone, and everyone had friends after freshers week. So believe me I know how you must have felt! it was AWFUL. I was on antidepresants by the end of the 1st year.
HOWEVER. People in my house swapped around and I ended up sharing with 3 girls who I'm still good friends with now. I made friends eventually and in the 2nd year got a new house with different people. I'm now going into my 3rd year in a lovely flat with my bf and the best friends a girl could ask for!
So I totally don't blame you for running a mile! I very nearly did and if it wasnt for my bf I think I would have. Its bollocks when life shits on you. Hopefully next time it'll go much better for you. Good luck :thumb:
But wasn't he gonna get a job this year?
It seems like a rather hasty decision, and in my opinion, to be honest, it never seemed like you'd stick at it anyway, and i doubt you'll stay in 2007 either if your that quick to leave now.
Anyway good luck with what you do.
Well i hope for your sake you do. But whats to stop you doing same next year? If your getting all worked up about something so minor, then your heart obviously wasn't in it from the start. The money etc is an excuse.
Didn't you say this before you went this year?! :chin:
Mate, whether you go or not, it's hardly likely i'll be posting crap like that is it.
To be honest sounds like a bunch of vague excuses, but good luck to you. Maybe one day you'll actually do it.
What the fuck? Are you for real? Noone actually says "mark my words".
Will you go back next year? Who knows. Was it a mistake to drop out this year? Probably, but quite a lot of people do, really.