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This is a deeply personal thread for me. It won’t be relevant to some of you. However, I’ve got a lot to say to TheSite.org’s members. Since there are so many of you, I’ve decided to write it up publicly for all to see. I’ll try to keep this brief.
As most of you know, ever since I said I wanted to go to university, I’ve been worried sick about it. Whether it be threads about me not knowing how to cook, (which nicebutdim23 very kindly responded to by starting a cookery thread) or me fighting with 1983 and countless others over my university worries, it’s been an utterly mad rollercoaster. At times, I’ve felt that it’s all getting on top of me and that it isn’t worth the hassle. Indeed, last Friday, when I tearfully said goodbye to my work colleagues on my last day at Haven, I wondered whether this step into the unknown was really the right way forward. I’m not especially likely to be online tomorrow, so I’ve decided to post this now.
To those of you who have posted advice to me on the boards about university in countless threads dedicated to the subject – thank you. It may not seem like it at the time, but your advice is hugely appreciated. I’m well aware I’ve upset some people by throwing their advice back in their faces, but often they’re words that I need to hear. In some senses, I’ve lived an incredibly sheltered life, so such words are sometimes interpreted as harsh and reacted to in a hostile way. I do understand you’re saying it for my good, though – that’s one thing I’ve learnt about TheSite.org boards in the near two years that I have now been a member. When I first started here, I didn’t know how long I’d last. Much to my surprise, and probably to everyone else’s, I’m still here two years later. Thanks also to the moderators. I’ve had more than my fair share of criticisms for you in the past, but I understand you’re here to help us.
Right, down to business. I’m off on Friday morning. It’s a trek of over 200 miles or so, which will take several hours. Whilst packing, I get the feeling I’m taking half my life with me at the same time! I’m nervous about meeting my new flatmates in BS1, about working out my way round a new city, and about working out my way round campuses and to lectures. Above all, I’m concerned about how quickly I’ll learn to cook and look after myself. There are some who’ve supported me the whole way, and doubtless will continue to – you know who you are!
There’s countless numbers to thank. However, special mentions go to Kermit for being surprisingly patient with me on some threads, despite my often less-than-appreciative tone, Littlemissy who helped me out a great deal a few months ago, and to Icey, whose words last week in a PM to me were very thought-provoking. However, the biggest thanks are reserved for two young women. They’ve been there for me every step of the way, their support is unflinching. Malteser Monkay and Nicebutdim23, this is for you. You’re truly the best mates I've ever had. Thank you.
EDIT: Nearly forgot to mention one other girl who helped out a lot, mainly because she'll be at UWE too, albeit on a postgraduate course - Bunny_0_. Thanks, babe.
Love you all. xxx
As most of you know, ever since I said I wanted to go to university, I’ve been worried sick about it. Whether it be threads about me not knowing how to cook, (which nicebutdim23 very kindly responded to by starting a cookery thread) or me fighting with 1983 and countless others over my university worries, it’s been an utterly mad rollercoaster. At times, I’ve felt that it’s all getting on top of me and that it isn’t worth the hassle. Indeed, last Friday, when I tearfully said goodbye to my work colleagues on my last day at Haven, I wondered whether this step into the unknown was really the right way forward. I’m not especially likely to be online tomorrow, so I’ve decided to post this now.
To those of you who have posted advice to me on the boards about university in countless threads dedicated to the subject – thank you. It may not seem like it at the time, but your advice is hugely appreciated. I’m well aware I’ve upset some people by throwing their advice back in their faces, but often they’re words that I need to hear. In some senses, I’ve lived an incredibly sheltered life, so such words are sometimes interpreted as harsh and reacted to in a hostile way. I do understand you’re saying it for my good, though – that’s one thing I’ve learnt about TheSite.org boards in the near two years that I have now been a member. When I first started here, I didn’t know how long I’d last. Much to my surprise, and probably to everyone else’s, I’m still here two years later. Thanks also to the moderators. I’ve had more than my fair share of criticisms for you in the past, but I understand you’re here to help us.
Right, down to business. I’m off on Friday morning. It’s a trek of over 200 miles or so, which will take several hours. Whilst packing, I get the feeling I’m taking half my life with me at the same time! I’m nervous about meeting my new flatmates in BS1, about working out my way round a new city, and about working out my way round campuses and to lectures. Above all, I’m concerned about how quickly I’ll learn to cook and look after myself. There are some who’ve supported me the whole way, and doubtless will continue to – you know who you are!
There’s countless numbers to thank. However, special mentions go to Kermit for being surprisingly patient with me on some threads, despite my often less-than-appreciative tone, Littlemissy who helped me out a great deal a few months ago, and to Icey, whose words last week in a PM to me were very thought-provoking. However, the biggest thanks are reserved for two young women. They’ve been there for me every step of the way, their support is unflinching. Malteser Monkay and Nicebutdim23, this is for you. You’re truly the best mates I've ever had. Thank you.
EDIT: Nearly forgot to mention one other girl who helped out a lot, mainly because she'll be at UWE too, albeit on a postgraduate course - Bunny_0_. Thanks, babe.
Love you all. xxx
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And good luck untill the nets up and running, text me if you need x
Only joking.
btw.. i thought you was going to manchester?
Good luck with it and all. Im sure it'll go faster and easier thank you think!
Have a great time. Try not to worry as much and just enjoy yourself.
And remember to study
Best of luck :thumb:
Today, I visited the bank to check on a couple of things, and there are some very serious problems. As a result, Unite haven't received my accommodation payment. The account I'm using as a student account was dormant for a long time, so the bank made the decision to close it - right after I'd put a significant amount of money in it to pay for my accommodation. My money is now stuck in a central bank and won't be released until an auditor approves, hopefully tomorrow. I won't go into any more details right now. Sufficient to say, however, that, until this matter is sorted out (which I'll be doing tomorrow morning) I won't be leaving tomorrow. I'll probably be here now until next week. Knowing that I'm going to miss part of Freshers week is a disappointing setback, but I suppose it may not be as bad as it seems.
Meantime, cheers for the messages of support, some of them are from particularly unexpected places, but welcome all the same.
Thats a bit shit innit.
Anyway you'll enjoy Bristol. It's fun. Do you know whereabouts your accomodation is?
Well i wasn't asking for a full postal address. I just meant the area.
Ah. So it's near the red light area