If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
general question about men and cumming
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Im wondering how the men here feel about the amount of stimulation given after the point where they are cumming.
i know that when im masturbating myself, i like to carry on the stimulation until the orgasm has finished this can be a few seconds but i know that men are supposed to have much sorter orgasms than women and like completely different thins anyway
but basically when im either on top and controlling the movement, or when im giving a hand/bj i dont know when to stop, should i stop at the moment it starts to ejaculate, or do i carry on doing it till it stops ejaculating? or about half way?
and when its stopped ejaculating it still throbs and moves, should i keep hold of it till this stops aswell? or do i let go of it and let it kinda move by itself and sit there throbbing
help im confused!??
i know that when im masturbating myself, i like to carry on the stimulation until the orgasm has finished this can be a few seconds but i know that men are supposed to have much sorter orgasms than women and like completely different thins anyway
but basically when im either on top and controlling the movement, or when im giving a hand/bj i dont know when to stop, should i stop at the moment it starts to ejaculate, or do i carry on doing it till it stops ejaculating? or about half way?
and when its stopped ejaculating it still throbs and moves, should i keep hold of it till this stops aswell? or do i let go of it and let it kinda move by itself and sit there throbbing
help im confused!??
0
Comments
so i should stop when it stops throwing out cum basically?? what about after that should i just leave it alone or hold it still so it doesnt keep quivering there by itself,
thanks guys by the way for the quick replies
Little image popped into my head then any made me giggle.
Just ask I guess
ETA: I should be sensible and say that you should ask him.
I found it a very good sensation when the girl kept slowly going on while and after cumming.
Even if the stroking is uncomfy for him then, holding is always good. If you give BJ and swallow wait a bit until everything came out. Don't be too quick whil letting the grip or whatever go.
When having intercourse I find it very pleasant when I 'stay' for a while inside the gal after I came. It's really bad, if you - hypothetically - jump of his peen when he starts cumming.
When he comes just slow down and be very gentle.
And the same more or less applies to a blowjob too. After he has come, it is nice to gently keep slowly sucking until he has finished his .. erm .. quivering ... and just let his cock 'lie' in your mouth as he recovers ...
i just carry on til its stopped "throwing out cum" and then just kinda hold it, in fact i cant even remember overly because i dont take much notice. Not had a complaint about it anyway :thumb:
ps. just ask him for the most accurate reply
But, really, everyone is different. You should ask him, not us.
:yes: