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Hand jobs - how quick?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1983 wrote:
    Sit on his face with your legs on his hands and tell him off for interrupting.

    Mmhm.

    0w3nd
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    4tune wrote:
    An orgasm a day,
    Keeps the blues away!


    Indeed!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It also keeps prostrate cancer down.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to let you guys know, the other night I finally got up the courage to actually give my man a hand job - properly, without giving up halfway through, and it turns out I'm actually quite good at it! Go me :lol:

    He kept saying how amazing I was and begging me to do it again (and every night since then:rolleyes: ) ...he might have been exaggerating to build my confidence up a bit, but I don't care - I've got over my fear of handjobs!

    Next on the list...BJ's - they're scary too :eek: (for the same reason; I'm worried I'll be rubbish at it!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alasia wrote:
    Next on the list...BJ's - they're scary too :eek: (for the same reason; I'm worried I'll be rubbish at it!)
    dont be

    i`m a lot better at blow jobs than hand jobs, harder to get wrong i think!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Really?! I'd have thought it'd be the other way round.

    I'll give it a go, maybe at the weekend when I've had a drink (or ten!) to calm my nerves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    coincidentally I know someone who could help you to practice, alasia. :yeees:

    j/k ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alasia wrote:
    Really?! I'd have thought it'd be the other way round.

    I'll give it a go, maybe at the weekend when I've had a drink (or ten!) to calm my nerves.
    i find it easier, as my hand doesnt ache which means my performance doesnt decline haha

    also its something he cant do himself, so he will enjoy it a whole lot more ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ohh...didn't think of it like that!

    Thanks, I'm definitely gonna give it a go. I'm sure there's almost nothing to it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't forget to fit your jollies in there too!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lick the tip of his cock gently while wanking his shaft - always works :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bunglenutter wrote:
    It's quite bad for the back, yes.

    good one :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :crying: rather unfortunate to say but I was never good at that, even my friends explained me the finer points of the art when I was compelled to tell this problem of mine to some close ones. But nothing seems to help me, also I am in the constant fear that this might become like a mental stigma for me from where I can never come out! So any further helpful suggestions here will be gladly accepted.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes it is dependant on the guy, however - when it comes to foreplay i think hand jobs is the thing im most confident on. you can vary your speed some points goin really fast and other nice and gentle depending on how your man reacts. If this is only for foreplay dont go TOO fast as this will make him cum....not a good idea if ur planning no having sex shortly after. And also I like to keep quite a firm grip.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote: »
    And also I like to keep quite a firm grip.

    ...stroke his balls while doing that - should get a result! :naughty:
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    It's like a dog, giving a cat a piggy-back ride onto a tree.

    Exactly. :yes:

    They're good though when they're on the sly, when your somewhere you really shouldn't be doing that sort of thing. :D
    Weekender Offender 
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    They're good though when they're on the sly, when your somewhere you really shouldn't be doing that sort of thing. :D

    Lol yep, my ex tossed me off in the back of her dad's car while he was driving it! :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HIT wrote: »
    It also keeps prostrate cancer down.

    You can get cancer from lying flat on your face????? :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    handjobs

    You could challenge him that he cant handle you taking control. As well as sitting on him you could tell him that 'a friend ties her fella up' and torments him by giving handjobs and challenge him that he couldnt handle you taking control.

    There is a technique called milking where you can actually control his orgasm and make him come when you want to, that drives guys insane, makes them putty in a womans hands! I had it done to me.

    paco
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    paco, check how old that thread is. Alasia probably mastered the arts of handjobs already and might even make a lot of money with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alasia wrote: »
    Advice please:D

    May recommend this helpful video? :)

    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=kmeJehFiXqU
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    May recommend this helpful video? :)

    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=kmeJehFiXqU

    :lol: thats brilliant.

    Its not you is it Teegan? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your best bet is to ask you partner or get him to show you, if not there are a few quick guides to help you out, like Tickle His Pickle (great name for a book)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    May recommend this helpful video? :)

    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=kmeJehFiXqU
    great video very amusing!!
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