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Giving Back the Exs Key
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I still have my Exs house key, however I want to give it back to him, but in a way where I dont have to talk to his face 'coz since we split up hes been acting like a complete dick. The options to return it are:
1) Face-to-Face - Last resort only
2) Post it back to him
3) Pop it through his letter box whiles hes not there.
4) Send it to where he works.
5) Destroy in some amusing way so it cant be used and chuck of the end og the pier in Brighton - Immature but fun!
Which one do I choose.
1) Face-to-Face - Last resort only
2) Post it back to him
3) Pop it through his letter box whiles hes not there.
4) Send it to where he works.
5) Destroy in some amusing way so it cant be used and chuck of the end og the pier in Brighton - Immature but fun!
Which one do I choose.
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Yea that 1. Its only a key so don't worry about it
:yes:
Don't let him think he's got to you, and don't stoop to his pathetic level.
If he asks then she can say "Oh i chucked it off the pier, best place for it"
Only bout £1.50 for a new 1. I believe she has the urge for it or she would of never said it.
Same effect as 2, but you don't have to pay for the stamp
That would be funny! Not advisable as hes completley homophobic. I'm torn between being mature and doing 2 or 3. Or chucking off the pier to make me feel better. I think he might have forgotton that I still have it or he might have asked for it back. Then again he still thinks I actually want to speak to him still and telling me in detail who he wants to pull in great detail to me on my birthday is a good idea.
Its not very safe having the address and the key that matches it together!
I would say put it in his letter box.
The plan was for me and another one of our mates to knock on the door and give it to a family member and leave, wordlessly, since he was supposed to be in Brighton. Unfortunetly, when we got there, he was jsut on his way out of the door, and looked us up and down and told us to fuck off. So my mate chucked it at his head.
We still laugh about it now. Good times.
Or are you really looking for a chance to see him again or wind him up?
:yes: It can't cost more than 1.50 to get a new key. Does he even still know you have it? Does he even care? I'm surprised he hasn't changed the locks. I would if I knew somebody I didn't want around anymore still had a key. I agree with SCC. on this one, just throw it away.
Or Vinyl too on her last post.
No point in giving him some satisifaction knowing that he still has something over you, even if he does.
even better, go into his flat when he's not there and reverse all the rooms:D
:cool: