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In the showers @ skool

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have to shower now at school, but have not been through puberty as 'fully' as the rest of my mates (i fear).

I am sooooo anxious about it, and wot should i do?

I feel like i hate myself.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks, i neva fort of that, but in the gym there are no cubicals, in the changing rooms aswell.

    It stops me swimming aswell, i get so depressed about it.

    What is the usual age for u 2 start in lads?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I started kinda late. There is no certain time. I started going through puberty shortly after I turned 14. I felt embarrassed at the time, but just be patient. Besides, there's gonna be at least one other person in those showers with the same problem.

    If one of them says something, ask them why they were looking in the first place.

    Hope that helps
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u do nto have to shower. WE had a scary ass gym teacher, I swear someone who literally shouts at you and hmiliates u if u don't have a shower in a girls school is just wrong. Has to be a lesbian and a perv old woman. You have a right not to shower....don't worry about it EVERYONE feels the same s u inside, honestly!!

    -moogs
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ZealoT:
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    If one of them says something, ask them why they were looking in the first place.

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    Good answer! Things like that always work with younger lads!

    Like has been said above, you can choose not to shower, but you may look a little out of place. Just do it man. There'll be loads of others who haven't hit puberty yet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks a lot, you have all been great!

    I know now that i am not singled out! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u would certainly have a nice school if u had cubicals.

    u'll b fine dont worry
    i would put up with showering in ur swimsuit, everyone else will b too. if u dont u never know wat label might b put on u *cough* smelly kid *cough* so wat would u like more?

    i. to b a bit embaressed the first time but b ok afterwards
    ii. or b called the smelly kid?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u alrite mate, that is another options so u can make sure 2wear a pair of swimmin shorts 2the showers. simple enough y dont u try it. if ne1 asks y u wear them just tell em its got none of the buisness.
    sorted mate <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    [ 07-01-2002: Message edited by: diamond gezza ]
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