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ha ha ha ....oh wait......
fuck.....
didn't know you were a les....
why am I finding out every girl I know's gay
You can be yourself and get laid......and who's a lesbian?
My aplologies sophia.
Had one girl who noticed a bottle of 'kalms' and asked me if I got stressed a lot. Thing is, whenever I've been in a girls room, theres always random crap all over the place. But usually its a case of throw the teddies on the floor and cuddle on the bed.
It's just a few items. Like I'm With Stupid said, if your room is *filled* with uber-geeky things, I could understand you angsting about the anti-girl vibes. But they are, as you say, knick knacks. If you're bringing someone to your room & they free out over stuff like that, I'd say good riddence. Me, I have cuddly toys sitting on my bed, & my room is plastered with posters of anime characters & musicians I like. If I brought someone home & they pointed & laughed at the plushies or anime stuff, or whined because the musicians were hotter than them, my response will be "Bye!". It's not even that I'm that obsessed with my possessions that I value them more than a potential partner, but frankly if you're that shallow that a few knick knacks will put you off someone then I ain't interested.
Look at it this way - either it's a one night stand, in which case why should she care you have some geeky stuff. Or it's a relationship, & if she's put off by your hobbies you're best off not getting together.
Also, isn't it kinda sexist to assume girls will be put off? There are female geeks out there! You've already mentioned at least one girl found that skull cute.
ok, for the girls who said they like stuff like photos and candles and the like... (sorry if this offends anybody) your girls! Your supposed to like that stuff, if a bloke had all that stuff in his room, It would be a little camp wouldn't it?
I put the stuff in storage and gonna have to do some thinking.
B.T.W what anime characters do you have on your wall puss in boots?
whats in your bedroom then I.W.S?
My room however, looks like the video to Lady Marmalade, so I'm no better really
Have whatever you want mate, it's your room and your space to do what you want with!
if a lad judged me by my bedroom he'd think i was 8 or something.
Me as well. Of course, it does depend what/who the photos are of.
I thought about getting some black candles but decided against it.
I put my stuff away cause johnnys gotta grow up
are you trying to attract a freak to your bedroom?
Nah really im trying to go for the goth/grunge/emo (or whatever you wanna call it) in my room but am only fumbling with ideas.