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Advise needed

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm meeting up with my girlfriend on friday and spending the weekend together at her house. She says she might not be ready for sex just yet and thats ok. Just wondered if anyone had any suggestions on anything that I could do with her. I've got some ideas but just checking if you have any better ideas. I really want to please my girlfriend.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why don't you speak to her about what you are going to get up to? There's not much point us telling you what we'd do on a weekend away with your girlfriend since we don't know you or her.

    Advise is the verb
    Advice is the noun

    [ 21-05-2002: Message edited by: Kentish ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's true Kentish. Just thought you lot may be able to give me some ideas that I might like to try.

    PS: I was never that good at english <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stupid idiot...but its okay , let me help u out. 1st of all everybody wants 2 have sex not just men , girls 2.what u need 2 do is make her feel comfortable, don't let her think twice , u should be confident and alwayz have that last word but make her feel like a women , make her get wet from your looks, touch , and words!!!trust me..she wants 2 fuck but she doesn't want 2 look like a hoer, so she hides her nasty side!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by GOLDSUNS:
    <STRONG>stupid idiot...but its okay , let me help u out. 1st of all everybody wants 2 have sex not just men , girls 2.what u need 2 do is make her feel comfortable, don't let her think twice , u should be confident and alwayz have that last word but make her feel like a women , make her get wet from your looks, touch , and words!!!trust me..she wants 2 fuck but she doesn't want 2 look like a hoer, so she hides her nasty side!</STRONG>

    And you called him stupid? Right. Anyone else see the irony here? Or is it just hipocrisy?

    Either way, fuck the hell off Goldsuns. Jeesh
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turtle I can't help but agree with you about what you say but Goldsuns has a point [ he has honest!!!] that women are just as much interested in sex but women often have alot more feeilings [emotions] involved when it comes to sleeping with someone for the first time especially when it comes to someone they care about.
    Maca even if you don't sleep with her there is plenty of fun you can have without having sex, it sounds like you have a good relationship with your GF so talk it out with her Like KENTISh said and you will have a ball.... Oh and make sure you bring some condoms just in case <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If someone says they're not ready for sex then trust them - THEY'RE NOT READY so don't take shit advice from people telling you they want it but they just haven't realised it!

    I agree with the first answer - ask her!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by GOLDSUNS:
    <STRONG>trust me..she wants 2 fuck but she doesn't want 2 look like a hoer, so she hides her nasty side!</STRONG>

    <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> trust you? when you say things like that? yeah, ok then.

    maybe she is actually not ready <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she doesn't want sex then that's fine by me and I'll accept that. I'll still have a great night just being with her. I'm nervous about having sex with her too. I'm not going to force her into anything she doesn't want to do.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You'll be happier if you wait till she's ready.. she may resent you if you try to push it on her.. and you'll both enjoy it more when you're both relaxed and ready <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Maca:
    <STRONG>I'm not going to force her into anything she doesn't want to do.</STRONG>

    Good attitude to have. Glad you haven't listened to that lovely guy who seems to think that all women want it but don't want to look like a "hoer"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    <STRONG>

    And you called him stupid? Right. Anyone else see the irony here? Or is it just hipocrisy?

    Either way, fuck the hell off Goldsuns. Jeesh</STRONG>

    Not just you.
    Goldsuns (GOLDSUNS) is a c!?%.
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