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Do you close your eyes?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
The question just came into my head a few days ago and it's been nagging at me ever since! Do you close your eyes when you give a guy a blow job? I can't imagine having them open, but I just wanna know for sure ok?!!

*broken image*@ the workings of my weird little mind!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well.. for the first time im looking just to c wots there <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; kinda thing, but if i err, know my way around his equipment then i'll close my eyes..
    the first time youre also looking at his facial expressions and the way he reacts to things, not just listening and feeling in so many words <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    but then if youre using anything like icecream or whipped cream or chocolate sauce, you know the type of stuff, you dont close your eyes do you?
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; if this makes no sense, dont worry, i havent been to sleep. well.. i did, for thirty seconds when i was one the phone this morning <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    anyways, there ya go.

    [This message has been edited by IcKleMoNSteR (edited 24-03-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's a funny one!! I hadn't even thought about it but yes, I always have my eyes open..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have no idea! i've never noticed whether i close my eyes or not. so why am i posting, i don't know - just dumb i guess!
    anyway i'll check next time and let you know!!!

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    well id never thought about that before!! but open as far as i can remember.

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    would like to contribute, but don't feel i would be able to add anything valuable.

    And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have mine closed. Its most natural aint it. It's like kissing.Most have them closed when kissing so what makes blow jobs any different. Closing your eyes is alot more sensual but apparently if you open your eyes and look into his eyes its a great turn on but I find it uncomfortable opening my eyes.
    So there you go, your not wierd but at the end of the day its personal preference really aint it???

    Whatever turns you on!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ta everyone <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; So I guess you're right CHEEKy and it is just down to personal preference. Well we shall see when/if the time comes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Like Turtle said, I dunno how well I can contribute to the immediate conversation...

    But after thinking about it, I realized I usually have my eyes closed when I give a girl head.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    first time i gave a girl head i was in a really uncomfy position, and as i didnt know the genatalia of a female to well then, i had to look where i was going, and i was curious, but now i sit back and enjoy the ride, u have to look at there face, to see what they enjoy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    first time i gave a girl head i was in a really uncomfy position, and as i didnt know the genatalia of a female to well then, i had to look where i was going, and i was curious, but now i sit back and enjoy the ride, u have to look at there face, to see what they enjoy.

    ummm...as I understand it, if you're giving a girl head something is SERIOUSLY wrong in your heterosexul relationship.

    does someone want the honours of explaining human differences?

    And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turtle, saying giving head to a girl is the same thing as saying eating her out, or cleaning the carpet, or opening the box, or getting a rug burn, or swabbing the decks ;-)

    Chris...first time I did it, I was in a very uncomfortable position too. And sticking my face down there was the least interesting thing for me at the time, hehe.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For the opposite side of things, when i get close to cumming i close my eyes. (according to my g/f i make a great expression!):eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I close mine but every now and again open them and look up at him to see the pleasure on his face. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Do you close your eyes?
    Originally posted by Chickadee
    The question just came into my head a few days ago and it's been nagging at me ever since! Do you close your eyes when you give a guy a blow job? I can't imagine having them open, but I just wanna know for sure ok?!!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; @ the workings of my weird little mind!
    some of the time, i look at his face a lot though, in a dirty kinda way ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive just realised how old this thread is!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I keep my eyes open- when my boyfriend's standing up, which he often is, he sometimes starts moving- not sure he can help it- so I've gotta watch out in case I get choked! (actually its cos I like watching his reaction to whats going on!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    eyes closed; i think. not that i do it often.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bit of both really... I like to look at him as I pleasure him to see the look on his face, to make sure he's enjoying it but then would catch myself closing my eyes when I get carried away :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you can keep your eyes open. There's nothing as sexy as a girl kneeling naked in front of you, stroking, licking, and sucking your cock while looking straight up into your eyes. With the occasional slick, wet, noise and trail of saliva trickling down, and dripping from her chin onto her boobs. :naughty:
    Girls, do that and he won't last long, especially if you stroke his thighs, inner thighs, buttocks, bum, and stomach (just above his pubes).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I usually have my eyes shut.... personal preference though...

    wow, for once it wasnt freyja that brought this thread back from the dead.... :eek:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It was Bob the Builder this time. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sometimes, I usually look at him though since a lot of his exes didn't; and he goes quite coy. Haha.

    How old is this?! :impissed:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    How old is this?! :impissed:
    Doesn't matter. It's interesting to read, saves starting a new thread, there are other posts to read that we wouldn't have read otherwise, and there's still a lot we can add to it. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    Doesn't matter. It's interesting to read, saves starting a new thread, there are other posts to read that we wouldn't have read otherwise, and there's still a lot we can add to it. :)

    S'pose so :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ha ha ha ha






    I feel so alone :o
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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