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god I need help Please!

On new years eve I was out on the town like every other normal person! I seen this girl I took an interest in But I did not have the courage to go up to her and chat her up!! she was a complete blonde bombshell and I thought ok I will leave her she is probably seeing someone! so I got a few drinks and she passed me and I went for it! I said want to go outside thinking yea I got this sorted so we ended up in a hotel... I thought how lucky!! well we where stripping and I was so drunk I didnt take off her clothes! and that morning I woke up and yes she was still there so I thought lets go for it again AND I WAS SOBER! I started to take of her clothes she and got down below and felt this buldge she was a man! I feinted straight to the floor!! AND when I woke the he/she was away! The problem is I cant go out of the house or even move from my room and when I see girls men on t.v I am physically sick could anyone help me please help! <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds a bit nasty mate.

    It's one of those things you just have to put down to a bad experience, a lesson learned and all that.

    Next time your neckin someone on the way to a hotel slip your hand down and make sure there's nothing 'clever' down there <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    Just chill out, it's never happend to me so it cant be *that* common.

    Get out, get a girl and chill out, it'll do you the world of good mate <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    Phil.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Best advice is to get out there and shag a few (real) girlies, get back into the swing of things, before you feel too traumatised to engage in any sexual activity.

    If you feel that you are too upset to go out and meet girls any more, then go and see a counsellor.

    The main thing is to sort this out NOW; talk about it to someone you trust (or a counsellor) and don't let your feelings eat away at you in private.

    Tip: most girls are under 5'5" and nearly all are under 5'8". The opposite is true of men. Shoulder width is also a good clue.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about the models and butch girlies though? lol

    Elle McPherson would take a bit ;P and she's well over 5'8 hehe.

    Plus I've seen some freaky tranvestite conversions! lol

    Phil.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you all so much for your help and support its the best thing since the accident I think I am going to look at it as one of the sadest points of my life lol.. I have arranged to see an ex tomorrow so hopefully see how things go then thankz people bye!!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally, I find this story a bit hard to believe ...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bunty just a thought, If you dont delieve it dont post to it.
    Madinthenut may well be telling the truth,
    his post aint fowered with detail nor is it boastful, and it can happen!

    Madinthenut I have had a narrow escape like that in brighton, I had come back from the bar with a round of drinks, and said "that bird over there aint arf tasty" to which one of my friends burst out laughting and told me her real gender!

    Some TV's are convincing for sure
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scary stuff <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can you remember how far u went with it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok then RNT!! for starters I have only started going onto this site recently because a friend told me about and If I am going to be acused of being someone who I dont think I would really not want to be!! Look at that guys posts! they are bloddy insane I dont think I could even think of things like that to say so if you want to say comments like that then the next time get ur fucking facts straight OK!!!!!

    Ok and if you all cant think I could have a problem like that then I think you need to go out more because is year 2002 and things like this happen OK!!! SO YOU ALL WANT TO PICK ON A NEW MEMEBER THEN GO AHEAD IT WILL JUST SHOW I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE WITH THE FUCKED UP PROBLEMS BYE!

    [ 04-01-2002: Message edited by: madinthenut ]
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