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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi, ive had sex a few times but i never seem to impress. I feel as if its never as magical as its crack-up to be. I do everything i think im supposed to but the girl never seems extremely happy. I think its coz im shy and am afraid to go all out and it ends up that i get embarrased so i dont know what to do <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is ok hunny, i feel the same although am a girl!I'm always 2 embaressed 2 like scream n let uz boys know am emjoyin myself! i hink its a heavy riddy so i always sit tight *not literally* but i bite my lip n stuff! mayb thts the problem wiv ur girl aswell m8! mayb u shuld jus hav a wee word wiv her!!

    hope i was a little hlp!

    mwah x <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah she's right sweety.
    Anyway like most things sex takes practice, and if we're all honest its a bit scary - especially when you're new to it.
    Just relax, have fun and chill out. It'll get better.
    Your girlfriend is probably just embarrassed about making noise ect, I mean she's still sleeping with you isn't she? So it can't be that bad.
    She's probably just as worried about not pleasing you as you are about not pleasing her. But if you're really worried about it just ask her, I'm sure she'll appreciate the fact that you can be open with her about your fears.
    Just keep at it - its worth it!!!!!
    xx

    [ 04-01-2002: Message edited by: blow kisses ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There is no written law that says you must make a noise when you have sex. You probably won't until you feel more comfortable with the person you are with.
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