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time to come?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ive been with my gf 2 months now, ive fingered her many times, and shes jacked me off 3 times now. shes my 1st real gf, and 1st girl id fingered. when i first did it to her, we were lying on her bed, and i came after about 20 seconds. i assumed this was because of the 'excitement' of doing it for the 1st time. and true en0ough, it hasnt happened since. is it a normal thing that on the first tiem it will happen quite quickly, but on the following times ur more used to it/not so excited, so wont come so quickly? wen shes jacked me off, its taken around 8-10 minutes to come. im slightly worried abotu the nxt step, if she gives me a bj, or we have sex, i think the same thing mite happen, and, as its the first time, ill come quickly. i dont want this to happen, esp with the bj. is it normal? or is there anything i can do to stop it?
also, guys, how long does it take u to come whilst masturbating? for me it can take from about 2 minutes, but sometimes, not for about 10. again, is this normal? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well whn i wank ma boyf it takes him ages 2 cum but thts nowadays! at 1st it was quick aswell so dont worry urself! on the whole bj thing he took a while on tht aswell but thn thts cos hes no so xcited by the whole thing ne'more! i hink on the 1st shot at hings uz cum quicker but as uz get used 2 it u take longer, completely normal if u ask me m8! hope i was of sum hlp but i doubt much lol.

    luv yaz lotz like vodka shotz <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not a fella or anything but its totally normal not to come straight away, like after 2 mins or something. dont worry about not coming for ages when you do have sex cause the worst thing for a girl is if a fella comes 2 mins after youve started and then rolls over! theres no proper time when you shud come, i happens differently for everyone. dont be worryn..........im such a waffler!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i totally agree wiv u asho! is tht no the most annoyin hing in the world whn thy jus start n get u goin thn whn thy'r all dun roll ova!i gets me so narkd at times but im no the type 2 say ne'thin!!

    luv yaz lotz like vodka shotz <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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