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Anyone met on the net?
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I met my bloke on the Net and wondered if anyone else has and if it worked
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If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
At first we fell in love as we both found each other interesting and stuff, but I decided to start denying it as well theres a big problem with her!!
If things were different I'd ask her out and I know a great relationship would transpire. We talk on the phone occasionally (but rarely) and we write by hand all the time, because its nice to show you care by putting effort in by hand not just typing e-mails.
Like I say its just a shame about her problem, or mine. Her problem, shes 16/17, still at school till 18, and can't move closer. My problem, nearly 18 but still studying and have no money at the moment. Our major problem. I'm in England, she's in France.
(Which means we're neighbours, its not like shes half way around the planet (+12hrs, only +1hr)but its not as easy as a long distance relationshop could be (i.e Me in Notts, her in Leicester, or Derby(Basically somewhere in the UK.)))
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
ive written loads about this lately, probably in the same topic in relationships! so im not gonna write it all again! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
*expects sympathy from all males*
Spoke to her on the net for a while after we met then never spoke again.....can't say im gutted.
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
Does she live half the world away? No. But +3hrs still makes life difficult to say the least.
Is she beautiful, intelligent, funny etc...(do I have a choice as to what i answer :P) of course she is.
Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
Thanx to the net i have had 2 stalkers claiming they love me. I have got several people on my block list and Ionly use chat to talk to my friends.
From now on I am completely anonymous, I use programs to cover my tracks when im in chat, and various other techniques for hiding in a shell. Of course I doubt any of it actually works.
then we decided to get him back and invented this girl from nearby, well my ex boyfriend acted out the part of this girl and arranged to meet the guy outside the same cinema he wanted me to meet him outside of a long time earlier.. and he turned up and his face was a picture when we told him "jo" didnt exist and we were there and it was all a wind up <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> cruel, but justified, as i almost got banned off the net coz of it and would have lost contact with loads of my friends and not been able to talk to my boyfriend as much. so he paid for it alright <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
You've now met another weirdo on the net <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
I'm pretending i'm the woman of his dreams (coz i know what he likes) tall, blonde and rich.
But its quite intersting too, some of the lies he's been saying, that his ex (ME) wants him back, which i don't.
You probably think i'm wierd, or trying to stalk him, but i'm not. I'm just having a laugh at his expense like he did when we were together. If he ever found out !!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
My mates have had similar problems revolving around too much sex and not enough relationship. That said , it doesn't seem to add up. I mean, if we're all such cool people why do the relationships never work...?
I'd stick to a pub/club/friend met partner personally. Anyway, if I'm way out of line, please write and tell me so.
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
That's so sneaky Mandi, I love it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
reminds me a bit of Babooshka - Kate Bush
She sent him scented letters,
And he received them with a strange delight.
Just like his wife
But how she was before the tears,
And how she was before the years flew by,
And how she was when she was beautiful.
She signed the letter
"All yours,
Babooshka, Babooshka, Babooshka-ya-ya!
All yours,
Babooshka, Babooshka, Babooshka-ya-ya!"
good luck with finding out nore lol
j9
my nans cat is named after that song <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
(i just thought you should know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">)
Sympathy given man - that truly sucks. Did you have to wait around in one shop (say next) for about 3 hours while she tried on clothes?