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Anyone met on the net?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I met my bloke on the Net and wondered if anyone else has and if it worked

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    ijust posted a reply to the exact same topic in relationships....

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know...just making i sure i get a reply lol.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I met this beautiful & intelligent (never known those two go together) girl over the net (who I will meet next week for the first time)

    At first we fell in love as we both found each other interesting and stuff, but I decided to start denying it as well theres a big problem with her!!

    If things were different I'd ask her out and I know a great relationship would transpire. We talk on the phone occasionally (but rarely) and we write by hand all the time, because its nice to show you care by putting effort in by hand not just typing e-mails.

    Like I say its just a shame about her problem, or mine. Her problem, shes 16/17, still at school till 18, and can't move closer. My problem, nearly 18 but still studying and have no money at the moment. Our major problem. I'm in England, she's in France.

    (Which means we're neighbours, its not like shes half way around the planet (+12hrs, only +1hr)but its not as easy as a long distance relationshop could be (i.e Me in Notts, her in Leicester, or Derby(Basically somewhere in the UK.)))

    Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
    I'm the rest!!
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    crap isnt it? why do all the amazing people, the ones you fall in love with, live so bloody far away?

    ive written loads about this lately, probably in the same topic in relationships! so im not gonna write it all again! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah i did....dunno why really....just spose she lived near me and seemed a nice girl. Well we met (with her friend stuck to her arm), and spent the whole day bloody shopping for clothes.

    *expects sympathy from all males*

    Spoke to her on the net for a while after we met then never spoke again.....can't say im gutted.

    "Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
    - Woody Allen
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have I met someone over the met. Yes.

    Does she live half the world away? No. But +3hrs still makes life difficult to say the least.

    Is she beautiful, intelligent, funny etc...(do I have a choice as to what i answer :P) of course she is.

    Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The Net is the work of Satan.
    Thanx to the net i have had 2 stalkers claiming they love me. I have got several people on my block list and Ionly use chat to talk to my friends.
    From now on I am completely anonymous, I use programs to cover my tracks when im in chat, and various other techniques for hiding in a shell. Of course I doubt any of it actually works.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    yeah you get all that too whowhere, i had one guy claiming if i didnt go out with him hed jump off a cliff (i met him once after talking on the net for a while in a nightclub for about 10 mins and he said not very much at all to me), and another guy who i refused to meet got MAD and started slagging me off in chat rooms and nuking me adn stuff for about a year and then made hate websites about me and got my phone number off an ex friend who went to his college and phoned me up at 2am and hung up and stuff.. got so bad i had to tell my dad all about it who phoned him up and then went round to see him, hes a policeman and said if the site wasnt taken down and it didnt stop by the next day he'd make a formal complaint. worked though! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    then we decided to get him back and invented this girl from nearby, well my ex boyfriend acted out the part of this girl and arranged to meet the guy outside the same cinema he wanted me to meet him outside of a long time earlier.. and he turned up and his face was a picture when we told him "jo" didnt exist and we were there and it was all a wind up <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; cruel, but justified, as i almost got banned off the net coz of it and would have lost contact with loads of my friends and not been able to talk to my boyfriend as much. so he paid for it alright <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    yeah you get all that too whowhere, i had one guy claiming if i didnt go out with him hed jump off a cliff (i met him once after talking on the net for a while in a nightclub for about 10 mins and he said not very much at all to me), and another guy who i refused to meet got MAD and started slagging me off in chat rooms and nuking me adn stuff for about a year and then made hate websites about me and got my phone number off an ex friend who went to his college and phoned me up at 2am and hung up and stuff.. got so bad i had to tell my dad all about it who phoned him up and then went round to see him, hes a policeman and said if the site wasnt taken down and it didnt stop by the next day he'd make a formal complaint. worked though! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    then we decided to get him back and invented this girl from nearby, well my ex boyfriend acted out the part of this girl and arranged to meet the guy outside the same cinema he wanted me to meet him outside of a long time earlier.. and he turned up and his face was a picture when we told him "jo" didnt exist and we were there and it was all a wind up <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; cruel, but justified, as i almost got banned off the net coz of it and would have lost contact with loads of my friends and not been able to talk to my boyfriend as much. so he paid for it alright <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    You've now met another weirdo on the net <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;



    I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol, i have been a complete bitch lateley. I have been using a different screen name and sending IMs to me ex, pretending i'm interested, and finding out stuff. I asked him if he'd ever been unfaithful, he said no, in fact he spoke quite highly of his ex (ME)!!

    I'm pretending i'm the woman of his dreams (coz i know what he likes) tall, blonde and rich.

    But its quite intersting too, some of the lies he's been saying, that his ex (ME) wants him back, which i don't.

    You probably think i'm wierd, or trying to stalk him, but i'm not. I'm just having a laugh at his expense like he did when we were together. If he ever found out !!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Internet relationships? Plently of my friends (and me) have experience them, and while I can only talk from my own experience, they don't seem to work. The man/woman of your dreams is just that for the first month or so, but then It all seems to come apart. My ex - who shall remain annoymous - stalked me online for 7 monthes, pestering my friends and relatives as well.

    My mates have had similar problems revolving around too much sex and not enough relationship. That said , it doesn't seem to add up. I mean, if we're all such cool people why do the relationships never work...?

    I'd stick to a pub/club/friend met partner personally. Anyway, if I'm way out of line, please write and tell me so.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hehehehe mandi, i think that sounds like a laff, i mite do it to my ex <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by mandi7810:
    Lol, i have been a complete bitch lateley. I have been using a different screen name and sending IMs to me ex, pretending i'm interested, and finding out stuff. I asked him if he'd ever been unfaithful, he said no, in fact he spoke quite highly of his ex (ME)!!

    I'm pretending i'm the woman of his dreams (coz i know what he likes) tall, blonde and rich.

    But its quite intersting too, some of the lies he's been saying, that his ex (ME) wants him back, which i don't.

    You probably think i'm wierd, or trying to stalk him, but i'm not. I'm just having a laugh at his expense like he did when we were together. If he ever found out !!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


    That's so sneaky Mandi, I love it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    reminds me a bit of Babooshka - Kate Bush

    She sent him scented letters,
    And he received them with a strange delight.
    Just like his wife
    But how she was before the tears,
    And how she was before the years flew by,
    And how she was when she was beautiful.
    She signed the letter

    "All yours,
    Babooshka, Babooshka, Babooshka-ya-ya!
    All yours,
    Babooshka, Babooshka, Babooshka-ya-ya!"


    good luck with finding out nore lol

    j9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm still chatting to him though not as often. We send eachother silly online greetings like on valentines, its really funny. Even though i know he has a girlfriend he still denies it. I think he needs help, he's supposed to be engaged to her, yet he tries to chat me up. But he still insists he was faithful the whole time!!!! When i know he had a liking to my best mate. If i find out he was all this will come out in the open then i can get back all that money he owes me NOW rather than later.!! lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    That's so sneaky Mandi, I love it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    reminds me a bit of Babooshka - Kate Bush

    She sent him scented letters,
    And he received them with a strange delight.
    Just like his wife
    But how she was before the tears,
    And how she was before the years flew by,
    And how she was when she was beautiful.
    She signed the letter

    "All yours,
    Babooshka, Babooshka, Babooshka-ya-ya!
    All yours,
    Babooshka, Babooshka, Babooshka-ya-ya!"


    good luck with finding out nore lol

    j9

    my nans cat is named after that song <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    (i just thought you should know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by city_boy:

    *expects sympathy from all males*



    Sympathy given man - that truly sucks. Did you have to wait around in one shop (say next) for about 3 hours while she tried on clothes?

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