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First kiss gone?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Omg, i cant believe wot i did last night, or should i say, this mornin...Maybe it was the drink we had, or maybe not as we didnt have much! Only a lil bit of vodka n coke, a snowball and sum babysham. But, I had my mate around and it was about 2 o'clock in the morning, and we were both on my bed in our PJs chattin about boys n stuff, i showed her these papers about kissing n stuff and she started asking me about whether i wud 'get off' with anyone in our class (we go to an all girls school) n i said maybe, only if there was a gud reason. Then we started kissing, and the she started using tounges. Then she rolled me on top of her...We didnt get undressed or anything, but she was running her hands up my back. We pulled away and she went to the loo, when she came back i said i was tired, and tried to sleep but she kept sayin, but im not tired and kept touching me. Im scared now that my first kiss has gone <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> i have a really great boyfriend at the moment, and dreamt of having my first kiss with him, does experimentin with friends count as a first kiss or not? My mate has a really big mouth and im scared she will tell someone especially her best mate...What will everyone think if they know? HELP!? <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right, sweetheart: don't worry. Whatever happens, you have at the very least done the following:

    a) learned how to kiss without the possibility of embarassing yourself in front of your boyfriend
    b) kissed a member of the same sex, which is something about which I think most people are slightly curious until they've drunkenly done it
    and
    c) established that you are not a lesbian

    In a year or so, you'll laugh at this. Just try not to hurt anyone's feelings (your boyfriend's, friend's, or own) in the meantime. Don't worry!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It was your first kiss i spose. But yeh, at least you'll have got some practice in before you kiss your bf for the first time! <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wanted my first kiss to be perfect, doesnt everyone, and now ure saying it has happened like this...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry, this doesn't count as your first kiss, because it was only messing about with a mate, the meaning wasn't behind it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Trophy Wife:
    <STRONG>c) established that you are not a lesbian</STRONG>
    No, she's established that at this time she doesn't want that kind of relationship with this friend.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's very true; sorry, I'm still feeling the effects of last night and thus not particularly eloquent!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sweets, this was not your first kiss. This was a drunken pull, this was an experiment and curiosity showing its head. That's all, totally natural nto a kiss. Big difference between pulling and kissing. Kissing is amazing as you know the person and possibly love the person you are kissing and absoltely fancy the pants off them. You did not kiss her. You didnt even pulled her she pulled you......Don't worry about it, forget about it. Honestly do!!

    Tis gone. what we talkign about? huh? sorry?

    -moogs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kinky:
    <STRONG>OMG!!! Wot was it like kissing a girl then? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> I have always wondered that. I'm sure that won't count as ur first kiss coz u were just mucking around, right? <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> At least u can say u have experimented! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    Yeah well thanx to my gd ol mate Turtle, i have decided that it wasnt me first kiss, and that i shud forget about it...And if she does tell anyone then i will just tell em the truth, she is a BAD kisser. And it was just mucking about, the alcohol was gettin to me...And how many people can say the 'got off' with the opposite sex? Not everyone!
    Ta Turtle xxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i disagree sorry - i think it was ur first kiss - most people hav their first kiss wen they're drunk its probably just wiv a person of the opposite sex! as for not tellin ur b/f doesnt it count as cheatin??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm glad you have it straight in your brain now! ignore hippychick. *sorry, no offence meant*

    A load of my mates when they were younger all got off with each other. They were having a sleepover and they just all started kissing each other. None of them are lesbians, none of them are bi, except one has got off with another girl since but still is in love with the male speacies. :-)

    -moogs.
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