Fetishes

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I am bored so thought i would start up this thread.

Everyone has them, some are mundane, some unique, some unusual, some common in thw world of sex, so...Fetishes Discuss??

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my girlfriend licks my nose

it makes me giggle

could you call that a fetish?

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Does it make sex more enjoyable for you?

If not, then no.

There's nothing wrong with a bit of light S&M, but I don't get the feet or scat fetishes. It makes me pull :eek2: face

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TheShyBoyInTheCorner wrote:

my girlfriend licks my nose

it makes me giggle

could you call that a fetish?

Haha you get given nose jobs.

I dont think I have fetishes.

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I think I'm into most kinky stuff. Slightly anyway. More experimenting and trying things "lightly" than full blown wearing a nappy and getting pissed on stuff.

Jack off of all trades, deviant of none.

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There's some things I know I'd never do - I'm not taking a shit on anyone, that's for sure.

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Kermit wrote:

Does it make sex more enjoyable for you?

If not, then no.

There's nothing wrong with a bit of light S&M, but I don't get the feet or scat fetishes. It makes me pull :eek2: face

Giggling and being in a really happy hyper mood does but I think thats normal...

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I have a bit of a thing for biting men don't think that's a fetish though. x

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remotebleeper wrote:

I have a bit of a thing for biting men don't think that's a fetish though. x

Why do you like to bite men?

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stargalaxy wrote:

Why do you like to bite men?

I find it sexy.

I dont draw blood or hurt them (much) :flirt:

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remotebleeper wrote:

I find it sexy.
I dont draw blood or hurt them (much) :flirt:

:nervous: I wouldn't be very keen on being bitten myself, but that's just a personal thing.

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stargalaxy wrote:

:nervous: I wouldn't be very keen on being bitten myself, but that's just a personal thing.

Awww I'd be gentle!

I didn't think it was strange to bite men. I think I like it because I know I could hurt them if I wanted but they trust me enough to know that I wont.

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remotebleeper wrote:

Awww I'd be gentle!

I didn't think it was strange to bite men. I think I like it because I know I could hurt them if I wanted but they trust me enough to know that I wont.

It's definitely a test of how much you trust someone. For instance, I wouldn't let anyone handcuff me to the bed unless I trusted them completely.

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stargalaxy wrote:

It's definitely a test of how much you trust someone. For instance, I wouldn't let anyone handcuff me to the bed unless I trusted them completely.

I'm not sure I'd like to be handcuffed, I find that quite scary. I also don't like to be blindfolded...see i'm quite conservative really!

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remotebleeper wrote:

I'm not sure I'd like to be handcuffed, I find that quite scary. I also don't like to be blindfolded...see i'm quite conservative really!

Probably because, when blindfolded, the other person will decide it's the ideal opportunity for some watersports... :yuck:

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stargalaxy wrote:

It's definitely a test of how much you trust someone. For instance, I wouldn't let anyone handcuff me to the bed unless I trusted them completely.

well yeah, of course you wouldnt.
I also assume you wouldnt get handcuffed unless you were into that sort of thing otherwise whats the point?

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Handcuffs and blindfolds are great fun, but obviously you need an element of trust in the relationship for it to work.

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I've got so many fetishes I don't consider them fetishes anymore, just normal sexual activity. But I don't know if I'd want to discuss them on here.

However, I have a bit of a foot "fetish" that is more emotional than sexual, if that makes sense. I don't go in for Fergie-style toe-sucking (though I wouldn't rule it out) but I do think they're an amazing part of the body - very underrated.

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I think a fetish is something youre REALLY into in a sexual way, almost to the extent that you need it to get turned on. Theres nothing that I feel THAT strongly about.
Theres a difference between being a fetishist and being a bit kinky.

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I don't think festishes have to be sexual.

Sometimes you can have fetishes that would only satisfy your mind and not in a sexual way.

After it's not because you don't have sex the same way everyone does that it means it is a fetish, well at least not for me, it is just the way you do it that's all.

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Some light S&M can always liven things up.

Should I be worried if my girlfriend is reading the Marquis de Sade to come up with ideas?

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nihilisticmadman wrote:

I don't think festishes have to be sexual.

I agree. That's kind of what I was saying before about the feet thing, I don't think fetishes are as straight forward as they seem, anyhow.

I mean, while I've got a bit of a thing about feet - I certainly don't cream myself over shoe catalogues, though fair play to anyone that does. :angel:

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Kermit wrote:

Does it make sex more enjoyable for you?

If not, then no.

There's nothing wrong with a bit of light S&M, but I don't get the feet or scat fetishes. It makes me pull :eek2: face

My ex used to like sucking my toes, really don't know why because Iwouldn't like to suck my own feet thats for sure.

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The feet thing is easier to understand in a bdsm relationship as feet/toes licking can be an act of submission.

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I definitely wouldn't call it a fetish, as it isn't that really, but I have a thing for gay displays of affection. Maybe its the reverse of guys loving lesbian porn or something... don't know really, all i know is that I get an intense feeling when I see it, and it turns me on.

Heh

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I have a slight biting fetish...it really really turns me on to bite or be bitten. If i get my neck bitten, I get goosebumps all over and I get all tingly. Also if I bite my lip or have my lip bitten really hard (to the point of bruising) during sex I come quicker....maybe its not as slight as I thought....

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wow zella....nice!

I was with a girl that liked to bite...left me with a lot of bruises.....

I like being kissed on my neck lol...

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I forget i made this thread today. lol

I like to give girls foot massages in the foot fetish sense of it.

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feet are disgusting, i hate feet to the point where i cant look at them with out getting freaked out.

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Zella wrote:

feet are disgusting, i hate feet to the point where i cant look at them with out getting freaked out.

I've never understood foot fetishes either.

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stargalaxy wrote:

I've never understood foot fetishes either.

That might help you understand it. Fund it quite interesting.