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15 year old stalker
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my boyfriend has a 15 year old stalker!!! and its doing my actual head in!!
they met through myspace, chatted away etc, then she started leavin comments on his pics like 'you look great in this pic hun xxx', so i was like ehh...whit??
and he works in asda, so she comes in and looks for him, sees him then leaves!! like WTF?? then leaves comments on his myspace like 'ooh, saw you stacking the butter but couldnt come talk to you'.
i got annoyed with all this and asked my bf 'does she know you have a gf?' and he said yeah, but hey, that dont stop some chicks!! and hes all, oooh, she has such great taste in music, you wouldnt believe shes 15, etc. AAARRGGHH.
thennn, she was in the pub with him the other night, and started swanning about with her digital camera. well of course she had to have her pic with him. and now its on her myspace!
she left him a comment sayin "ive negotiated with my mum (OMG, could you BE any more 15 hen?!?) and im gunna come to the pub once a month". if i see her im TAKING HER DOWN HARD. daft wee lassie. i swear to god.
im not at ALL worried he'll run off or whatever, but its just like....FUCK AWFFFF!!! god, if the door was swinging the other way, and some wee dude was stalking me, he would be uber pissed off. but noooooo.
am i being a fandan??
they met through myspace, chatted away etc, then she started leavin comments on his pics like 'you look great in this pic hun xxx', so i was like ehh...whit??
and he works in asda, so she comes in and looks for him, sees him then leaves!! like WTF?? then leaves comments on his myspace like 'ooh, saw you stacking the butter but couldnt come talk to you'.
i got annoyed with all this and asked my bf 'does she know you have a gf?' and he said yeah, but hey, that dont stop some chicks!! and hes all, oooh, she has such great taste in music, you wouldnt believe shes 15, etc. AAARRGGHH.
thennn, she was in the pub with him the other night, and started swanning about with her digital camera. well of course she had to have her pic with him. and now its on her myspace!
she left him a comment sayin "ive negotiated with my mum (OMG, could you BE any more 15 hen?!?) and im gunna come to the pub once a month". if i see her im TAKING HER DOWN HARD. daft wee lassie. i swear to god.
im not at ALL worried he'll run off or whatever, but its just like....FUCK AWFFFF!!! god, if the door was swinging the other way, and some wee dude was stalking me, he would be uber pissed off. but noooooo.
am i being a fandan??
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just tell the landlord shes underage, when she comes in, she will be removed
Me thinks he is being tmepted by the little lolita.
Maybe next time she is in the pub when eh is there, you should be to. Sit on his lap and give him the best kissing, snuggling, griding and filthy talk of his life.
He'll forget her and she wil get the message I'd say.
Lucky bugger though, having a gf and another girl chasing after him, must be good for the ego.
You think he's leading her on?
To be honest, I think the original poster is probably able to keep her boyfriend's attention away from a 15 year old with a crush without giving him a lapdance in the pub. If not, then I'd find that a bit worrying. But that's just my take on it.
Do what MrG said, the landlord (and drinking laws) are your friend in this predicament.
So for chatting with a 15 year old it's time to call the police... wtf? He hasn't jumped into bed with the ga!..
no, it only takes the 15 year old, or her mother 2 mins to call the police in a panic saying the older guy has been doing this that and the other, it doesnt have to have happened, and then he gets his name tarnished for life, little girls who dont get their own way often like to scream till they get what they want
when dealing with any children under the age of 16 you have to tread very carefully, behaviour upon the part of this girls bf could be as far from grooming as you want, but its the suspicion of something that will get the police involved, not necessarily any hard evidence
i had a quick look on your myspace...she seems to be sucking up to you but at the same time rubbing it in that she went to the pub with him.
she seems very immature...she might grow out of it...but i'd have words. I know if it was me i'd find it amusing at first but it would get annoying after a bit.
wow, some scary replies on this! to clarify, my bf is 21, yes i live near him, and no way in hell would her ever behave innapropriately with her. he aint that kind of scary guy, and i can satisfy my man, thanks very much! he just thinks shes cool as cos shes into "the metal" :rolleyes:
im not worried that he will run off with her or anything, hes not interested in her in that way. its HER that blatantly fancies him!
i guess she is pretty mature for a 15 year old...she goes to the pub of her own accord (with her mums consent), and hangs out with older guys anyway. i dont think shes a bad egg, or a wee hooer or owt, shes just gettin to close to my bf for my liking.
my bf thinks im totally overreacting, which i guess i am...
would you not be the same tho, if you were in my shoes?
he see's a mature girl, who lieks stuff he likes and like shim. So he has an interest and an ego stroke.
By going to the pub and doing some of things I suggested, instead of him having a conversation with her and inadvertnatly leading her on, he would focus on you instead.
Then 2fold, when she see's how close you 2 are and how into you he is and how serious are about keeping him, she will relaise she can't compete and move on.
Funny everyone bringing up the age thing. Its so wack now. 14 and 145 year olds look way older. Sex underage is normal these days as well, then not so long ago we had people saying age graps were no problem and hwo they got with people in there teesn that was older and countless age of virginity lost threads with people saying they arere 13, 14, 15 when they did it.
crazy world.
erm i dont know if theres a specific crime that you could be charged with, but with holding information about a crime to the police, if found out, can be serious, and if this girl is underage drinking in the bar, there you go, plus the landlord could have his licence removed as well
if he is hanging around with her, he doesnt even have to think about doing anything with her, if a 21 year old guy is hanging around a 15 year old girl, especially at the pub, it could be anyone, and i mean anyone that says something to the police, we are talking people with vendettas, members of the uninformed vigilante police (members of public) who just dont know the real facts, or pretty much just anyone to say something, and the police will view it as a serious allegation and it could cause hassle
Hunni if I was in your shoes, i'd feel the same. I would be annoyed. It seems he is encouraging her and most 15 year olds get the wrong idea because of their naiveity.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=52239504
Shame she wasn't a few years older
looking at that profile proves exactly why he should be careful, if only she was a few years older!
be very careful, people say things, and police do things, even if its all a heap of shite
I think id definitely be a bit pissed off with that even if i did know that deep down there was nothing in it. If you ARE jealous, then you ARE. better to sort it out now than seethe about it quietly and it all come out later anyway.
Oh and I'd box her one if I was you.