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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Whats your thoughts on a girl of 15 having sex with a guy whos 2 years older. I know shes still not legal, but if shes the one 'pressuring' (not correct word used) you to lose her virginity because she wants to be close to you, what would you do. and what do you think? Would it be right to have sex, because as a bloke, i do want it, its just her being 5 months not legal. And its with her concent, not with me pressuring her. Ideas?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by NeoNero:
    <STRONG>Whats your thoughts on a girl of 15 having sex with a guy whos 2 years older. I know shes still not legal, but if shes the one 'pressuring' (not correct word used) you to lose her virginity because she wants to be close to you, what would you do. and what do you think? Would it be right to have sex, because as a bloke, i do want it, its just her being 5 months not legal. And its with her concent, not with me pressuring her. Ideas?</STRONG>

    In a time when 11 year old sluts are losing their virginity to 23 year olds, I wouldnt worry about a pitiful 2 year difference. Especially if she's nearly 16 and asking you anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    While I wouldn't quite agree with Whowhere's blasee attitude, I think that the mature attitude which your post is evidence of suggests that it's okay by me. Do make sure, if you can, that it's not something she thinks "you want her to do".

    All the best,

    DJP
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm...what do you think about a girl having sex with a boy who is 1.5 years younger? Im nearly 16 and he is 14 and a half. I dunno. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its up to you mate, but at the end of the day do you wanna do right by this girl??

    I think you should wait, can't hurt can it....You still can do other things

    But if you need to get "your end away" they do it, know one would really think any less of you
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i was 15 when i lost it but id been going out with him 4 5yrs then i moved and we spilt and i have never regreted it how long u 2 been together
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i was 16 i started seeing a lad who was 14 and we had sex. i was 2 years older than him as our birthdays only had 4 days difference. we stayed together for bout 11 months and people give me loadsa shit bout it, but you just learn to ignore them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well we did it this morning, and although it hurt her, she enjoyed it and was grinning from ear to ear afterwards. Thanxs for your help guys.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I wouldnt worry. If u really love each other go for it..I mean im 14 and i have a boyfriend whos 17 and i lost my virginity to him..just make sure u really love each other!Its up 2 u!Its all good stuff!!!! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as long as she really wants to do it and she's not just saying it because she thinks that it's what you want to hear then do it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ive already posted saying its happened.
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