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BillieTheBot
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what's everyone opinion?
liking it? hating it? sometimes is ok?
making sex better or worse?
making relationship better or worse?
liking it? hating it? sometimes is ok?
making sex better or worse?
making relationship better or worse?
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No vibrator could beat the feeling of a throbbing penis going in and out.
So why bother?
I don't see why a man can't do the job here.
You can penetrate and still masturbate the clit.
I dont know a figure but I imagine that its a common problem. I'm not belittling a bloke's part in sex here just pointing out that vibrators do have its advantages
Well I'm sure they have otherwise they wouldn't be that many on sale.
After I guess for women that have a partner that aint that good in bed or something a vibrator would be useful to get an orgasm once in a while.
Sometimes i think sex toys might even cause the problem to a certain extent in some people as the body learns to "need" that sort of stimulation before it can orgasm. It can become spoilt in a way.
Well in a case like that I see the point of them obviously
Yeah but for some reason it look like women with toys are ok, but men with toys are weird... At least it's the feeling I get... I might be wrong obviously...
If a woman can get an orgasm some would see as a crime to refuse a vibrator...
If a man can't come, well tought luck...
Also I agree men in general come easily...
I'm not sure they are the same thing... I think that it is much easier for men to orgasm. So any extra toys are more likely to be used as psychological aids to orgasm, rather than physical aids. Whereas sex toys for women are more likely to be used to stimulate the right spot etc, rather than the psychological use of the toy to enable them to reach orgasm quicker.
For instance, a man and a woman start a new relationship. The woman finds it difficult to reach an orgasm through penetrative sex alone. So they introduce a vibrator to use while they are having sex to reach those bits that penetrative sex alone can't reach. But this is unlikely to happen the other way round, as it is probably fairly rare for a man not to be able to acheive orgasm through penetrative sex. If he did wish to introduce a rubber doll into their sex life, it is more likely that it would be because a rubber doll turns him on and excites him, rather than being because he physically can't reach an orgasm without one.
Surely it should be more than enough for 1 or 2 holes and a a clit...
I mean, both parties can still join in...
"What's the problem Mr Raz?"
"Vibrator to the eye, doctor, Optic sex if you will."
Thats classic.
Hehe, ok, fair enough!
When i was with wife we had a large selection of toys, and dvd's. Didn't use them all the time just when the mood took us.
p.s Ive never noticed anyone else on here from portsmouth! (youngbull)