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So Angry

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Just found out my boyfriend had sex with another girl not two weeks ago, and i am just seething at the moment. I want to destroy something. I can't believe he did this to me! :mad: :mad: :banghead:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *subzero* wrote:
    Just found out my boyfriend had sex with another girl not two weeks ago, and i am just seething at the moment. I want to destroy something. I can't believe he did this to me! :mad: :mad: :banghead:

    Sorry to hear that. He is an ass hole.

    Breaking something sometimes help to relieve a bit of stress.

    Nothing he owns close by?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So sorry to hear *hugs*

    Have you had it out with him?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    Breaking something sometimes help to relieve a bit of stress.

    Nothing he owns close by?

    His penis perhaps!?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    snapping_crocodile wrote:
    His penis perhaps!?!

    Yep seems like it would be a good idea in this case :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh shit, sorry to hear that. Don't break anything too important to you! x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Few questions tho:

    1. Did you had sex with him afterward?
    2. Safe sex?
    3. If no for 2., did he had safe sex with her?

    Always a must know in case like this, just for piece of mind on that part.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    Few questions tho:

    1. Did you had sex with him afterward?
    2. Safe sex?
    3. If no for 2., did he had safe sex with her?

    Always a must know in case like this, just for piece of mind on that part.


    Yup i had sex with him, no it wasn't safe and the condom broke when he had sex with her, which just makes it worse as now i have to go to the doctors to get tested. Im going over to his house tomorrow to have it out with him, so i shall probably break most things in sight.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *subzero* wrote:
    Yup i had sex with him, no it wasn't safe and the condom broke when he had sex with her, which just makes it worse as now i have to go to the doctors to get tested. Im going over to his house tomorrow to have it out with him, so i shall probably break most things in sight.

    Oh shit. Really sorry to hear that.

    Even more a cunt for still having sex with you after.

    Also do not worry too much, the risk is still low.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does he know that you know?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good point NMM.

    *hugs* you have every right to feel mad, go shout, scream, cry, stomp around, play loud music, break things.

    Remember you are not at fault here.

    God I sound like a right feminlist at the moment, sorry slight PMT.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    snapping_crocodile wrote:
    Does he know that you know?


    well his best mate knows that i know, so that means he probably does, and i hope he's cowering in a corner somewhere.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do what feels right tomorrow...just remember it's quite clear you deserve somone much better than him, someone who will treat you like a queen, and give you the repect you deserve :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :) thanks for the support everyone, i really appreciate it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why are you still with him? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    why are you still with him? :confused:

    i won't be for long, i just want to talk to him face to face.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    why are you still with him? :confused:

    My thoughts exactly. Personally, I would've split up with him now - you never know, he could do this again...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *subzero* wrote:
    i won't be for long, i just want to talk to him face to face.
    ah good, just don't let him sweet talk you. there's no excuse for cheating tbh
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    QUOTE=snapping_crocodile]His penis perhaps!?!
    [/QUOTE]

    yeah go for it! ..what an asshoel...leave him, he doesn't deserve you..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh you poor thing :( what an arsehole.


    Btw, when he says the condom broke with her, he means he didnt use one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rainbow brite wrote:
    Btw, when he says the condom broke with her, he means he didnt use one.

    Big chance it is what he meant :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rainbow brite wrote:
    oh you poor thing :( what an arsehole.


    Btw, when he says the condom broke with her, he means he didnt use one.

    oh...joy, well that doesnt surprise me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'd like to hear what his excuse is... :chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    i'd like to hear what his excuse is... :chin:

    Something pathetic like "it slipped", he didn't know what he was doing etc?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rainbow brite wrote:
    Btw, when he says the condom broke with her, he means he didnt use one.

    :yes:

    Bastard, id give him a piece of my mind if i was there mate :mad:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That is bad. I hope you get over him, he sounds like a looser
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aw thats awful, dont let him sweet talk his way out of it though, you deserve better than that, remember the saying - he does it once more fool him, he does it twice more fool you.
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