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Kinky Conundrum

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm having a bit of a dilema and was after some advice.
I've been seeing my girlfriend now for about 6 months and as she is 7 years older than me she is obviously very experienced.
A couple of weeks into our relashionships she started talking about her past experience with whips, handcuffs and other such items in the bedroom. I laughed it off until she purchased a set of nipple clamps and stuck them on me when we was in mid fore play.
I was deeply disturbed by this as I had a good Catholic upbringing and this has made me feel dirty and unholy.
What should I do with this woman?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tell her that u feel uncomfatable with it and it dont do nothing for u tell her that u dont wana do it again if she dont respect ur choice then dump her sorry but thats wot i think <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You could try doing a search on this subject - there's a lot of stuff on the boards recently about fetish/bondage, and more experienced partners.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey there Pee Wee!
    The older woman, aaahhh, I'm all too aware of your situation mate.
    I'm currently seeing a girl that's 28 so I know where you're coming from.
    Experimentation can be alot of fun, as you've an older lady it'll be easier to do things that you wouldn't do with a girl your age or younger as she is comfortable with herself and more confident to do what makes her and you feel good.
    This is great, as it also makes the older woman more open and easy to talk to.
    Just tell her that you don't mind her kinky ways and that you're open minded BUT those nipple clamps make you feel un-easy and uncomfortable.
    She'll understand trust me!
    Be open with her and you'll be surprised at the response as I'm sure she'll respect your wishes and beleifs.
    Take Care mate, and if you're ever in that position again just tell her how you feel.
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