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Should I cut my losses?
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afternoon,
just like to get an opinionon something. Been going out with my gf for 4 months now, was going swimmingly really until after new years. She went quite cold and says she hasn't felt the same and somethings missing. We've been talking lots and started having good sex again, she says she really doesn't want to leave me but at the moment doesn't think it's fair what she's doing to me.
She also says that she's not feeling right about more or less everything at the mo, not seen a lot her friends either and stuff.
So basically, I am pretty smitent with her and really don't want to give up just yet as there is a chance things will change but do I keep hanging on or say enough is enough and move on?
one more thing, I basically said lets end it then yesturday, and she said, can I still come round and have cuddles and sex etc....... I said no way, not fair doing that.
What to do guy's and girls????????
just like to get an opinionon something. Been going out with my gf for 4 months now, was going swimmingly really until after new years. She went quite cold and says she hasn't felt the same and somethings missing. We've been talking lots and started having good sex again, she says she really doesn't want to leave me but at the moment doesn't think it's fair what she's doing to me.
She also says that she's not feeling right about more or less everything at the mo, not seen a lot her friends either and stuff.
So basically, I am pretty smitent with her and really don't want to give up just yet as there is a chance things will change but do I keep hanging on or say enough is enough and move on?
one more thing, I basically said lets end it then yesturday, and she said, can I still come round and have cuddles and sex etc....... I said no way, not fair doing that.
What to do guy's and girls????????
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At the end of the day, four months isn't really that long, so if she's saying that now then maybe it's just better to end it. Plenty more fish in the sea and all that
Edit: on re-reading your post, my advice is don't be too hasty though! Talk to her and be frank - tell her you like her - ask her if it's you, or is it these problems she's having? But still stick up for yourself, don't let her mess you around.
ta!
I agree :yes:
It's hard saying no to a shag, but sometimes you have too.
If she doesn't know what she want, well tell her to go figure it out and get back to you...