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Torn up with a stupid idea...........
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Hi
Im just posting this to get it of my chest.Now,I explained about how Im too much of a wimp to talk to the swimming pool girl and havent.Shes pregnant now anyway which has really ripped me up over the weekend for some strange and sad reason as I dont even know her name!! :banghead:
Anyway I should be getting a new job at some point so I wont see her ever again and have decided to have as little contact and association with girls as possible.Nothing ever more than work acquaintances and things like that.
Anyway to the point.When I get a job with some money I want to get a guitar,teach myself to play and start a band..........is this a totally stupid and useless idea I should forget or give it a go?
I think I already know the answer but Im interested in other opinions. :thumb:
Thanks for any replies.
Im just posting this to get it of my chest.Now,I explained about how Im too much of a wimp to talk to the swimming pool girl and havent.Shes pregnant now anyway which has really ripped me up over the weekend for some strange and sad reason as I dont even know her name!! :banghead:
Anyway I should be getting a new job at some point so I wont see her ever again and have decided to have as little contact and association with girls as possible.Nothing ever more than work acquaintances and things like that.
Anyway to the point.When I get a job with some money I want to get a guitar,teach myself to play and start a band..........is this a totally stupid and useless idea I should forget or give it a go?
I think I already know the answer but Im interested in other opinions. :thumb:
Thanks for any replies.
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Making music is never a stupid idea, even if you don't end up having a band but know how to play enough to enjoy yourself it will be worth the effort...
When I was in my late teens I wanted to get into music... DJ / Production...
I ended up doing alot of work in it, Managed a record shop, DJ'ed in alot of clubs / events, produced my own EP and got 500 copys pressed and distributed, a few pirate radio stations...
Was great fun and I loved it... never made a career out of it, and I work full time now.. but I still do bits of bar / club work here and there...
Even if you dont make it, it will turn out to be a great hobby, I very much doubt you will regret going for it!
nice subliminal message
I dont know, I hear the monk population is getting a little low.
Though with all the people on here that have a bad experience with a chick and give up, I"m sure it will spring right back up
:thumb:
I believe you... :cool:
Unfotunately the cheapest guitar Iv found is £75 WITHOUT an amp!!! :crazyeyes
But then again argos have a beginners set with an amp and book I think for £99.but it DID used to be £70. :grump:
Can I have some ideas for a name for a band..Im not into playing system of a down stuff or any of that rage against the machine shite but play stuff like slayer(but different),the fastest and best band even after 25 years!!So it has to be chantable but also dark and easily recognisable too......hmmmmmmm.
They should be happy as all I get is dirty looks and told Im shit anyway........
Im just gonna learn some songs.....play some bookings and see what happens with the band......after Iv learnt to play guitar!!And got a band together
i think he means you'd be putting an emotional block on yourself. what is wrong with just being friends with women?
Anyway...........Im hopefully getting a job soon so I can get my guitar and finally start learning to play!!!
Reign in blood here I come....... :thumb:
Why I dont know.Im not arrogant or selfish or aggressive,but Im quiet,laid back and very shy when meeting new people.
But,the reason I want to stay away from women is,is because all Iv ever got is dirty looks,told Im boring with no personality and generally slagged off etc......Im not over-exaggerating this as it happened all through school life and before you say Im tarring all women with the same brush there hasnt ever been ONE girl who hasnt given me at least one dirty look or one of those stupid sneers they do.
Plus,even waiting at the check-out at tesco the cashier girl can be all bubbly and chatty with the guy in front and look totally depressed when she has to serve me and then go back to being happy.
Basically,it seems the less Im around the happier people are.
So there.......... I have nothing more to say on this EVER!!
Subject closed.
if you can't get a girl ...can;t think up a name for your band ...that don't actualy exist yet ...can't make any decisions whatsoever ...it might be a good idea to go back to the swimming pool and jump in ...with rocks tied to your legs.
Plus,bloody lifeguards would save me first.........
just get on with life lad ...start thinking ...take it as it comes.
if you have to ask everything ...if your not willing to take chances ...your going nowhere.
stop worrying so much about the outcome of things that aint going to damage or kill you ...or you'll never know joy.
oh mr roll why aren't you a comedian.