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Semen on hands
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My GF is all worried because a few days ago she gave me a handjob, and then went to the toilet soon after having not washed her hands. The thing is, she is sure she didn't get even a tiny bit on her hands because if she had she'd have thought to rub it off, and if she did get any on her hands it must've been the absolute tiniest bit (not to mention it would likely be dry within a minute or two). She has sore breasts but she does every month before her period in any case. She's got me all worried too in a paranoid kind of way, but it's pretty unlikely isn't it?! As I understand it, even with a full ejaculation during penetrative sex, only a tiny number of the little things make it all the way there!
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But a test, or better yet - two tests. Its a small price for peace of mind/early warning.
Ok, well she has never fiddled in her life (strange but true) so should be ok. Apparently her breasts aren't nearly as tender today either.... Thanks for your replies guys, just needed a bit of reassurance really. It's easy to get irrational/paranoid about stuff like this, thanks a lot. :thumb:
Yeah I know what you mean, but as long as you learn the actual risks and precautions and everything you'll be fine (and a lot less worreid in future!).
Oh and by the way, if a girl tells you she's never done it....she's lying
Well that's what I thought, but apparently not. The first time she came when we were together- I'm her first boyfriend- she was like 'what the hell is THIS?!'. In a good way, of course
Well in that case, awesome :thumb:
It sure is my boyfriend, became slightly worried a couple on months back when I was only a few days late, I kept telling him that sometimes this just happens and not to worry. It like this time I was a couple of days early. So personally I always allow a week to pass before I start to panic.
Loads of girls dont do it. I didnt do it, or even work out how to do it till i was 16. My cousin and one of my friends both say they never do it, and theyre neither the kind who are shy about sex particularly.
Even some men dont do it, or very rarely.
Obviously my generalisation isn't gonna be true for every invididual...but in my experience, girls have tended to lie about it more often than not.
They irritated me. It came up one day in English, and we all openly admitted it. Then, a (openly gay btw, so it's not like he was their boyfriend material) male overheard us, and asked what we were talking about. I admitted to him (discreetly obviously!)
Before he had chance to respond, the other girls were shrieking that I was a liar and I was disgusting for admitting to it. They started calling me a slag (attracting the attention of the whole CLASS) until the lad told them quite plainly "Oh shut the fuck up, I heard all of you, not just Nic!"
I got alot of respect about being so honest though. Even though I'd of rather not my entire english group known.
I love the way you said that, as if your normal chat up line for a guy is to tell him you enjoy a good old flick every now and again! :thumb:
Well some of them probably do lie, like some men do lie about liking porn movies..
But there is some who do it, some who don't, some who lie about it...
At the end who cares really...
The Lord cares :eek:
F**k the Lord
Oh no I hope I haven't pissed him off, otherwise i won't be going to heaven...
Like that's where i want to go...