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Talkin 2 mates about sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I wouldnt dare to talk to any of my mates about sex and aexual things like masturbation, do you feel the same? Or have you, and do you chat about it? Maybe it all comes when ure a bit older? Im nearly 14 and like i said wouldnt dare too <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i was 14 it was stuff like 'have u started ur periods yet', and 'hes fit' or 'whats ur bra(F)/dick(M) size?
    nowadays my mates are really open
    but it depends - usually the people who talk about sex most are the ones that arent getting any
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i talk about sex with my girl mates, but not my lad mates.
    I think girls are easier to talk to about stuff like that.
    My ex gf was ayway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, periods has come up with 2 mates, but they are LOUD people and everyone knows about it. Bra size, one person, but its just gross the stuff shes sayin! And i wouldnt dare to ask anyone dick size! Lol!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    only with a couple of my best girl mates, i cant think of any guys i'd dare talk to sex about.

    but hey, i've got thesite for all the sex talk i need. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont mind talking to my mates about periods, boyfriends ... but some of the stuff they talk about n tell, without bein aked is 2 much... <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    They (2 of em )tell u everything, each detaile of their sex lives, xactly what happened in bed ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

    I dont think u should force ur m8tes to listen 2 ur intimate details if they dont want 2... <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">

    What do u people think ??? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My old mates and I did all the time (before we left high school) - we all kinda went our seperate ways then but before that we all knew the score in eachoters love lives as we had pretty much all had each other anyway, and we were really close.

    Now with my mates at college we are still close and talk about it all, but in a different way than befoe and we cut the crap more now. The two people who were closest to me before they went to uni (i stuck around for a 3rd year) I would never dream of talking to about most of this stuff.

    Funny business innit.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    whem im getting any i talk about it <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    at first tho, when me and my best friend were first in a sexual/long term relationship, we talked about it loads... but that the same time talking round it to avoid embarrassment <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> just to reassure each other that it was normal and that we were both doing it "right", or something. now we dont talk about it hardly as much.. i know her and her bf do, what more is there to say? i dont see her every day in school anymore so that probably has something to do with it. its a bit weird to start sending emails with the sole purpose of talking about your sex lives in detail <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

    im not insecure about sex and i dont need to discuss every detail... sometimes my close friends ask what i get up to with someone, sometimes i give them a vague idea, sometimes a bit less vague <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> some of my friends ask specific questions and i dont mind that either, they're just interested. as long as they arent getting off on it <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> i dont see a prob.

    but if you dont wanna hear details of friends sex lives, i dont see that they should force it on you really, arasti. they should be a bit more discreet and do it somewhere where only they can hear!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

    oh but i didnt talk about any of this when i was 14... back then it was stuff about periods and you who fancy and who you'd kissed <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> and the whole "who would you rather kiss, bill or bob?" thing. now that only happens when we're blind drunk, and its a bit more explicit than that <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> hehe... *is 19 now*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    evrytime i am drunk and with loadsa me mates i tell them everything
    i went on a school trip once and i was really tired, bored and kinda pissed and it was like 3.30 in the morning and we all started talking bout things (mostly sex etc) and i happened to tell a fw ppl that i was not a virgin (i'm 15) ppl were cool and i was soo pleased.
    i also talked ot one of my bloke mates that i have known since i was 4 bout dicks and his size and we were comparing it to other girls experiences of penis size and my own. it was funny but then again i was very bored.
    i think u should b abnle to talk to someone about sex even if its not ur mates, just someone. i tell u talking to mates is alot easier than my parents!

    xxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm 16 and me and my mates, including females, talk about sex a lot. We are all very open about sex and masturbation. We find that by doing this we improve in the bedroom!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im 16 n me n my m8s talk bout stuff like that.but most think im cheeky cos i talk openly to girls bout sex...most girls i know answer me straight whateva questions i ask. <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm 52 and it doesn't change much. Guys may
    talk nasty but not really -about- their own
    sexuality. Stuff like, `how long is yours`
    and `what position is best` or `do you cum much`
    just doesn't get talked about.

    Guess some things don't change much.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always find it hard to talk to my best mate about sexual things but the friends who im not that clost to always seem interested, so i tell them. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and my mates always talk bout sex stuff, mainly to do with out b/f's or whatever. It's good to talk to them about it cos if you're worried about something they can help you. I guess it's just nice to be open with close friends.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i always talk about my it wit my girlmates, and wit my boy mates. i am just 15(october), and i have been sinse i was 13. i think the problem is that no-1 wants to bring up the subject. if u can, bring it up and talk about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and my m8s r always talking bout sex stuff. Considering out of the four theres only me and another who isnt getting any, it gives me a few tips should I get lucky again this side of a blue moon <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    They talk a bit more freely bout masturbation etc than I do. We all do it, obviously, so there`s no real reason 2 deny that. Altho when they start getting in 2 details I sort of hush up a bit <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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