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How long before they call?
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Ok this is gonna sound really stupid but In started a temp jpb for a few months at this place and in the morning I'd see the receptionist there, very pretty and sweet. I heard her talking and it turns out she is single. I thought I'd talk to her more over the days and then give her my number.
I found out she was leaving though so wasn't gonna bother. Her last day was friday and when I went down to leave she was there leaving. So I said hi and we got talking and she said she had been given 4 numbers from guys. I said "And to think, I was gonna give you mine". She asked why I didn't and I said coz she was leaving and she was like, that doesn't matter so I asked her if she wnated my number and she did and I gave it to her.
We walked for a bit and talked. She said she wasn't gonna ring those other numbers but definately mine. She had to get across town qucik so we said goodbye and I left to get my bus.
So now its monday and there has been no call yet. So I guess I am wondering, how long does it take before a girl who says she will call, calls?
I found out she was leaving though so wasn't gonna bother. Her last day was friday and when I went down to leave she was there leaving. So I said hi and we got talking and she said she had been given 4 numbers from guys. I said "And to think, I was gonna give you mine". She asked why I didn't and I said coz she was leaving and she was like, that doesn't matter so I asked her if she wnated my number and she did and I gave it to her.
We walked for a bit and talked. She said she wasn't gonna ring those other numbers but definately mine. She had to get across town qucik so we said goodbye and I left to get my bus.
So now its monday and there has been no call yet. So I guess I am wondering, how long does it take before a girl who says she will call, calls?
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If so then there's little you can do.
1) she will call you and you just gotta wait. she could be under pressure and not have much time in her new job you know.
2) she was just being nice.
Either way you can only wait, and i wouldnt worry about it anyway.
though yesterday I randomly taklked to a girl on the bus. She sat next to me and I hust asked her how her day was and started talking. We had a convo and it was cool. Didn't ask for her number tho or if she was single. Just a chat.
I don't know whats happneing to me. I never do this. I never or very rarely talk to random people and giving the number out the other week? Never done that before, well not in so oa way as to show I am interested in a girl.
Its strange. Good but strange.
Erm, I did! Met my bloke on a Monday, called him on the Tuesday, we went out again on the Wednesday. Can't be fucked with all this phonecall ettiquete 'how-long-should-I-wait-without-looking-desparate' crap.
However, when we were going out and long-distance, sometimes we'd only call each other once or maybe twice a week.
Just goes to show everyone approaches it differently and there's not much more you can do but wait.