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You do :eek2:
I dread to think how immature your friends are then. I mean, look how many times you have been asked to stop using text talk but you totally disregard what people are asking you to do. Being mature means growing up........you have a long way to go yet, dont you agree ?
I feel alot my confident with myself as a person now, and i feel i can gain alot more out of life. The fact is the only step i need to take is us telling our parents, why we lied, i know its gunna take sometime them getting used to the idea of us beein together but we're in love! I feel right when we're together and when we're not i feel emtpy like im missing part of me! I just want to get the point across that we're in love and that we're happy together! Im 16 and i should be able to see who i want!! I want to be taking more seriously !!!
SO HOW CAN I PUT THAT POINT ACROSS TO MY PARENTS AND HIS?
I think your best bet would be to say "I was scared to tell you, but my boyfriend is really 25. On the plus side, he teaches English to mentally retarded people"
Tell us how you get on...
Yeah, we have all been there. Im 16, I can do what the hell I want when I want :rolleyes:
So why does this all lie down with you why cant your boyfriend sort it ? I mean at the end of the day he's a 25 yr old fella so tell him to stop being a wimp and get the parents told...................sheesh
Good point there BeckyBoo, why has he not been more willing to help her tell her parents the truth.
If you want it to come across really well with your parents I'd suggest using loads of screaming, shouting anger like that last sentance suggests.
Really, if you want any adult to take your relationship seriously you're going to have to calm the fuck down about it. If the age gap is not an issue, then it's not an issue that needs to be discussed with your folks.
However, as a word of advice that you've not asked for, I'd say that you should break up with this guy. From what I can see here, you're not a mature 16 year old. And that suggests to me that either you're going out with a very immature older person, which probably wont help you in the long run, or you're being decieved by a mature older person who fancies taking advantage over a young girl. Neither of these scenerios is that great.
They will understand perfectly.
Lowest form of wit my post was actually. Still witty though
I think that they do, but unfortunately it's batted down by the endless reams of kids tv shows and music channels encouraging text speak and the like.
Sometimes the most important things people have in common transends more then time and different people mature at different rates, someone who's grown up in a very sheltered home may have less life experience then someone younger then them who's been through a lot for their age.
fankz for that waster i agree wiv u i jus want them to understand y we lied to them!
I wanted them to give mi bf a chance, i knw his parents will be ok bout it because they r understand people i jus feel that mi parents will b different coz im their lil girl ( they fink)!!!
Fankz for all the help people !!!
we are tellin them in 17 days !!! i hope it goes well!!! :crazyeyes
Pass, I really don't know?
I think it should be.
Discuss.
What is there to discuss, as you say it should be a bandable offense, its not like we did not ask her nicely to stop writing in text.
Oh, genius idea *light bulb*
Should it be banable... or beatable :chin: or both
They should be banded then beaten.
Oh my god, somebody got hooked on phonics for Christmas! :yippe:
Thanks for the courtesy of letting us know how it turned out, and for doing so in something tolerably close to english.
wow, a happy ending. Very nice.