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Should I Have Sex With Him Or Dump Him

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My boyfriend and I have been going out for the last 6 months and he has asked me to have sex with him but i'm only fifteen so i said no.he said he respects that and he can wait for me.But now he wants me to touch him up and stuff when we go out i feel really uncomfortable doing that and i said so to my b/f but he keeps on hassling me. Should I have sex with him to shut him up or dump him?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go to the relationship section and search for sum stuff <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dump him u stupid bitch. jesus. what is this, a country wide sale of brain cells in time for xmas.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    GOOD POINT Turtle - i was just being friendly b4...but ill let u in on a little thing called R.E.S.P.E.C.T (and not the song!) if all he wants is to shag u and not give a damn about your feelings - get rid of the cuunt! i have no respect for guys like that (albeit i used to be like that when i was a tad younger) but now i think its just horrible...things lead on to more things - then girls get raped and stuff <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As seen on countless yank chatshows: You need to dump that zero and get yourself a hero (strong white trash accent) <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    also purleeeze get rid of all those ***** under your name!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am thinkin that he is usin u a bit. peeps say they are all like that but if U do not want to ruse into things then don't.
    he does not rule u
    that is my advice but u do wat u think is best
    ( he mayb wat u do not think he is)
    hpe u do wat is best
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    talk to him. don't dump him outright, I know that after six months it's hard to let go. but he should NOT NOT NOT be demanding anything from you, especially if you are underage. foreplay is, to an extent, different, but again, if you feel you want to wait - don't do it!

    good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Like everyone else said, wait! A relationship is built on trust and you can't trust someone who is presurising you to do things you sont want to.
    Nuff said!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you have sex with him to stop him whinging and you don't really feel comfortable IT WILL HURT LIKE HELL!! Trust me!! Without going in to too much detail, if you are not relaxed, nothing will go there!! And you are clearly not ready- if you were you would be getting impatient by now. You will know when the time and the person is right. There is no rush. I did it way before I was ready and with someone I didn't even like too much, I lost respect for myself and for him for pressurising me, and was in bloody agony for days!! Take care and only do what feels natural in your own time...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Happy christmas everyone!!!

    like pretty much everyone has said you should defo not sleep with him just to shut him up. you would definetly regret it and once youve done it, theres no going back. put him in his place!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Take everyone else's advice and dont do anything until you feel your ready to do it!! You might have been with him for 6 months but that doesnt mean he can rule your life or make you do anything u dont wanna do! Do it when your ready!!! Talk to him, sit him down for a good half hour, however long it takes to get it into his head to ur not ready! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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